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10-04-2013, 05:17 PM
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Rest in peace T4, your kindness and generosity of spirit will be missed.
 
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10-04-2013, 05:22 PM
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I was just thinking about T the other day!
You will be missed but NEVER forgotten! Rest in Peace T4T!
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10-04-2013, 05:26 PM
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My condolences to the family and chosen family of T4!
R.I.P T4 I have fond memories of smoking virtual cigars with you in chat. |
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10-04-2013, 05:26 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Will keep family, friends, and loved ones in my thoughts. <3
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10-04-2013, 05:47 PM
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My condolences.
RIP T4. |
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10-04-2013, 06:05 PM
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Rest easy T4 you will be missed
our thoughts and prayers are with all that knew and loved T4
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10-05-2013, 05:20 AM
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Blessings and prayers to T's family and friends. T...you are missed on earth as you now fly free.
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10-05-2013, 10:03 AM
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Rest in Peace my dear friend. My heart is heavy knowing that you and I shall not be able to talking, text, or chat again in this life time, but my soul is light knowing you are now at rest. No more pain, or struggles to breath, or exhaustion from a short walk. Now you can chase the ladies freely, drive your dream truck, and do all the things you enjoy as you once did.
I will think of you fondly and smile....but know my heart will miss you terribly. |
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10-05-2013, 02:16 PM
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I did not know T4
I, as well as gaea...
We would like to pass on condolences for the loss of an obviously awesome person. May you rest T4Texas! May you take care Canela. Bless your heart and all our hearts NCS
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10-05-2013, 02:26 PM
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In shock
It speaks to our own mortality when we see our dearly beloved BF folks pass on. First it was Sweet Calico, then Mike, now T4.The chat room has lost some of its sparkle, but I am thankful for all the teasing and wisdom of T4. He helped me through break-ups, teased me about BDSM issues, and was a solid butch who I will always remember.
Sorry for your loss Canela. But, also, for the rest of us on the Planet. He was a keeper. Candice |
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10-05-2013, 03:58 PM
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im sorry to hear about t4s passing , my thoughts n prayers go out to friends and family , may his pain be free and soul be playful again .
until we talk again above t4 , your gonna be missed
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10-05-2013, 04:31 PM
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I am without words. When we talked a little while ago, I thought you were on the mend, doing better, in great spirits
 I had never considered. I hope you have the peace and painfree that you so deserve!
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10-05-2013, 04:36 PM
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Losing Charlie
I've never posted anything in the forums before, and I haven't spent time on this site since meeting Charlie, but I had a feeling one of the folks on her list to call was a member here and might post the news. I see I was right.
I met Charlie last summer, first on this site, and later in person. I never thought I would meet someone from the internet--gasp!--but lo and behold... These last six months have been alternately hellacious and beautiful. Hellacious because not much is worse than watching someone you love lie in a hospital bed, having pain, then getting a little bit better, then falling down again. But beautiful too in that I was blessed to spend almost every day by her side. This last week was transformative. I sat by her bedside, holding her hand like she asked me to do, as she faded from this world. I can tell you she died in peace and was made comfortable in her final days. She lost consciousness Tuesday night and her heart stopped beating on Thursday. She was precious. She was loved. By me, by many of you I see. I wish I had known her longer, but I feel I couldn't have known her better. Our time was profound, our conversations varied and deep. We had fun. We went places and did things. We laughed. We cried. We argued and made up. She was many things to me, but at the end of the day, at the heart of it all, she was my friend. My very dear friend. Canela, I hope to meet you at the service. I, along with her friend of 35 years, spent yesterday making the arrangements. Charlie had asked that in lieu of flowers, anyone who can should make a donation to the kidney disease or cancer charity of your choice. Please message me if you'd like more details about the service. Once we have the obituary posted online, I will try to put the link here (if that's possible). My heart is full, if not broken. I was lucky in that I left nothing unsaid, and as far as I know, neither did she. Charlie made me know how much she loved me, right up to the end. What an honor, a blessing, and a gift to be there, to know her, to love her. I will miss her. Something terrible. And I will always, always hold her dear. |
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10-05-2013, 05:00 PM
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I met Charlie in person, when I visited her in the hospital, a while ago. She was a good friend. At least she is no longer in pain, and can move freely now. Take care, Charlie, we're going to miss you.
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10-05-2013, 05:50 PM
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I'm so very glad to see you here. And I'm so happy that we will finally have a chance to meet. He loved you very much. You made him very happy. You were exactly the angel he'd been waiting for. I look forward to meeting you and M and others who loved him. Bless you, love. Canela
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10-05-2013, 06:10 PM
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10-05-2013, 06:44 PM
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I am stunned. I talked to T4 on and off thru the years. I don't get around much anymore so I was saddened to near the news. R.I.P.
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10-05-2013, 08:17 PM
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~Sigh~ Brings to mind that life is short, friends are important, and that we need to say I love you much more often and louder...
My heart weeps for Canela and Charlies family and friends. But my heart also assures my mind that Charlie is now in a much better place. Gone is the aches and pains, the regrets and the wonder of validations... My friend, your free now, you can run, you can ride, you can fly... Charlie mentioned many times of this moment, but I don't think we truly are ever ready for it when it comes. For now I say Aloha, and farewell.... You never liked the G**d *ye's, Just a strong Hug and a crossed arm hand shake and that was your joy... Keep them laughing and fill heavens bookshelves with all your wisdom... |
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10-05-2013, 10:00 PM
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RIP T4 - you will certainly be missed.
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10-05-2013, 10:09 PM
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This made me sad but also happy. Sad that we've lost T4. Happy to see how many lives touched. I chatted with T4 a time or two in chat. Seemed like a lovely human being.
Candles lit for those left behind. I doubt T4 needs one. I think the way will be clear. |
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