So long, T4 Texas, see you in heaven...

Canela · 10-04-2013, 10:59 AM

It is with a sad and heavy heart that I inform you that my dear friend Charlie, Chuck as I called him, has passed on to glory. He went peacefully in his sleep I'm told. I've known Chuck since the aol board days...his screen name there, was Charlie. When the boards dwindled I invited him to try first the dash site, then here as we all made the transition from one home to the next. Well, our Charlie decided to cut out completely and wait for us on the other side. He was my friend, my love, my confidante, my all around go to guy most times, and as dominating and hard headed as he was loving and kind and sweet and compassionate. Idk if y'all got to know him...but he was hard working, talented, trustworthy,, smart and funny...he was a photographer, artist, poet and writer...he taught me to trust my talents and to never forget I was beautiful....he made me believe I could do anything, challenged me without ever saying a word. Chuckie is gone but never forgotten....and I will miss him.

Services are planned for next week.

I put this announcement in this section because I wasn't sure where to put it and Chuck was a believer. Not a constant or consistent believer, but a believer in God, none the less. He, like all of us at some point, thought that God didn't and couldn't love him because of his lifestyle and we had long talks, debates and some knock

~ocean · 10-04-2013, 11:06 AM

(((((((( t4 )))))))))) ty Canela for sharing this information ~ T4's whitt has been missed and will always be missed. Hy was a good friend to me

God Bless hym ~

cara · 10-04-2013, 11:29 AM

RIP, T4.

OldSchoolButch · 10-04-2013, 11:59 AM

I was just looking for him the other day..I've missed our chats and so much has changed since the chat room changed and Mikes passing now T4...
He was a really good guy, down to earth and a real good friend...Your going to be missed Bro ....

Martina · 10-04-2013, 12:12 PM

I am so sorry to hear that. We talked many times in chat. What a nice guy.

Such sad news.

We had this little thing. When I would first see him in chat, I'd do a *tap tap twirl* as if to the song "Tea for Two and Two for Tea." Silly, but it was fun and seemed to delight him.

I just hate to hear this.

Heavenleahangel · 10-04-2013, 12:23 PM

May T4 be embraced as warmly in Heaven as here with friends. RIP.

Jess · 10-04-2013, 12:23 PM

So sorry to hear this. I don't get on the site as much as I used to, but had asked about T the last time I was in chat. I knew he had serious health issues but didn't know the full extent of it.
I am deeply moved by learning of his passing. Thank you Canela for a wonderful tribute to a great guy.

SleepyButch · 10-04-2013, 12:32 PM

Sorry to hear about T4. My thoughts go out to his friends and family. May he RIP.

JAGG · 10-04-2013, 05:16 PM

(((CANELA))) Sorry about your loss. I saw T4 Texas around alot but I never really had much contact with him. By your post he sounded like a wonderful guy. I pray you find peace in this saddest of times.

10-04-2013, 10:59 AM	#1
Canela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Babe, she, her, ella Relationship Status: Well loved… Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 2,375 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,643 Thanked 6,505 Times in 1,694 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	So long, T4 Texas, see you in heaven... It is with a sad and heavy heart that I inform you that my dear friend Charlie, Chuck as I called him, has passed on to glory. He went peacefully in his sleep I'm told. I've known Chuck since the aol board days...his screen name there, was Charlie. When the boards dwindled I invited him to try first the dash site, then here as we all made the transition from one home to the next. Well, our Charlie decided to cut out completely and wait for us on the other side. He was my friend, my love, my confidante, my all around go to guy most times, and as dominating and hard headed as he was loving and kind and sweet and compassionate. Idk if y'all got to know him...but he was hard working, talented, trustworthy,, smart and funny...he was a photographer, artist, poet and writer...he taught me to trust my talents and to never forget I was beautiful....he made me believe I could do anything, challenged me without ever saying a word. Chuckie is gone but never forgotten....and I will miss him. Services are planned for next week. I put this announcement in this section because I wasn't sure where to put it and Chuck was a believer. Not a constant or consistent believer, but a believer in God, none the less. He, like all of us at some point, thought that God didn't and couldn't love him because of his lifestyle and we had long talks, debates and some knock __________________ . . . . . Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

10-04-2013, 11:06 AM	#2
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,041 Times in 4,726 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	(((((((( t4 )))))))))) ty Canela for sharing this information ~ T4's whitt has been missed and will always be missed. Hy was a good friend to me God Bless hym ~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean

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cara Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer/lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Married to my love 08.15.15 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Indianapolis, IN Posts: 3,401 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,995 Thanked 13,254 Times in 2,725 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	RIP, T4. __________________ "The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you; they are unique manifestations of the human spirit." ~Wade Davis

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Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675554	May T4 be embraced as warmly in Heaven as here with friends. RIP. __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

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SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Sorry to hear about T4. My thoughts go out to his friends and family. May he RIP. __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

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OldSchoolButch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/Daddy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: PNW Posts: 95 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 288 Thanked 388 Times in 70 Posts Rep Power: 4691728	I was just looking for him the other day..I've missed our chats and so much has changed since the chat room changed and Mikes passing now T4... He was a really good guy, down to earth and a real good friend...Your going to be missed Bro ....

10-04-2013, 12:12 PM	#5
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,286 Times in 4,167 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I am so sorry to hear that. We talked many times in chat. What a nice guy. Such sad news. We had this little thing. When I would first see him in chat, I'd do a tap tap twirl as if to the song "Tea for Two and Two for Tea." Silly, but it was fun and seemed to delight him. I just hate to hear this.

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Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,700 Times in 1,682 Posts Rep Power: 0	So sorry to hear this. I don't get on the site as much as I used to, but had asked about T the last time I was in chat. I knew he had serious health issues but didn't know the full extent of it. I am deeply moved by learning of his passing. Thank you Canela for a wonderful tribute to a great guy.

10-04-2013, 05:16 PM	#9
JAGG Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: JAGG Relationship Status: =) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tulsa (cat free zone) Posts: 6,093 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,651 Thanked 17,531 Times in 4,137 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	(((CANELA))) Sorry about your loss. I saw T4 Texas around alot but I never really had much contact with him. By your post he sounded like a wonderful guy. I pray you find peace in this saddest of times. __________________ I don't want to spend my life with someone I can live with, I want to spend my life with someone I can't live without.