Instant Turn-Offs - Page 8

Kätzchen · 08-11-2017, 07:00 PM

Dirty cars.... or ..... tardiness.

Please, PLEASE, for the love of Johnson & Johnson Wax and chamois cloths, clean your car, get it detailed, make sure the floor boards and under the seats are vacuumed, and for the LOVE of Windex, please make sure the windows are spotless, mirrors too. Also, make sure the interior seats are well groomed. Make sure the car smells divine (synonym for clean).

Be Clean. Bee On Time.

Bonus points for making sure all tires are properly aired and balanced...

cinnamongrrl · 08-11-2017, 07:27 PM

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PlatinumPearl · 01-22-2018, 12:10 PM

Profanity. You can be absolutely amazing but if you use foul language consistently to express yourself it's an instant turn-off for me.

However, with that being said there are time where it can be appropriate though...

~ocean · 01-22-2018, 12:28 PM

When someone with a negative assumption and comments on something you say, that's not needed. That type of rudeness is a huge turn off . I'm very attracted to a classy person as a friend or date .

RockOn · 01-22-2018, 04:01 PM

emotionally cold personality

cutegrrl · 01-22-2018, 05:22 PM

Stupidity and ignorance.

*Anya* · 01-22-2018, 05:32 PM

I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker.

Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this.

I think it is kind of creepy.

*wink, wink*

Ooh.

Ascot · 01-22-2018, 06:25 PM

Weird presumptions. You're butch, so you must blah, blah. You're well educated so you must think this way. You're white so of course you feel the same way I do, etc.

Major timidity about trying new things. Trepidation is okay if we don't let it cripple us.

The classic chestnut, bad hygiene.

RockOn · 01-22-2018, 06:48 PM

winkie blinkie at *Anya*
Heh Heh!
Only joking around ... but you knew because you are smart like that.

Lyte · 01-22-2018, 06:55 PM

*mental note ... nix the wink if ever you meet Anya*

A wink is a very delicate expression ... gesture ... whatever. I can go very easily wrong ... or pretty darn right! It should be used with the utmost of caution and with much forethought!

Yes, I've been known to wink on occasion ... on occasion.

<-- not winking!

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Anya*

I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker.

Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this.

I think it is kind of creepy.

*wink, wink*

Ooh.

Lyte · 01-22-2018, 06:59 PM

Lacking even the minimum ... a modicum of social grace ... aka manners! I don't expect her to know what fork goes with what course but I do need her to be attuned to when "please" and "thank you" are appropriate.

Ascot · 01-22-2018, 07:09 PM

Treating anyone in a service capacity with anything less than respect. That's a major no-no with me!

EnchantedNightDweller · 01-22-2018, 07:18 PM

Here's my top 3:
You're a racist.
You don't like kids.
You don't like animals.

*Anya* · 01-22-2018, 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RockOn

winkie blinkie at *Anya*
Heh Heh!
Only joking around ... but you knew because you are smart like that.

Oh my gosh! We have a winking smilie!

*Anya* · 01-22-2018, 08:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lyte

*mental note ... nix the wink if ever you meet Anya*

A wink is a very delicate expression ... gesture ... whatever. I can go very easily wrong ... or pretty darn right! It should be used with the utmost of caution and with much forethought!

Yes, I've been known to wink on occasion ... on occasion.

<-- not winking!

Ha!

Gemme · 01-22-2018, 08:42 PM

Winks can turn into twitches and ticks surprisingly fast.

Sweet Bliss · 01-22-2018, 08:44 PM

being rude then pretending they were "just kidding"

being dismissive to ANYONE (including pets)

failure to communicate, covers HUGE area.

Lyte · 01-22-2018, 10:16 PM

See! A good wink requires a serious workout regimen! Winking is not for amateurs!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme

Winks can turn into twitches and ticks surprisingly fast.

Medusa · 01-22-2018, 10:42 PM

Instant turn-off = Fakery and disingenuousness. Like, that thing where you meet people who are bullshit artists. They aren’t even themselves, just bits and pieces they’ve gleaned as “special” from other people’s experiences or personalities.

No no no!

cathexis · 01-23-2018, 02:22 AM

Lying is something I despise (the main offense).
Excessive swearing (especially when unnecessary)
Impolite behavior to anyone. I don't care if it's the janitor, they deserve acknowledgement.
An individual is not equal only to the job they hold. Even professors can be schmucks.

08-11-2017, 07:00 PM	#141
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Near smoke signals in the sky. Posts: 16,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,450 Thanked 33,611 Times in 10,707 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Two (2) Dirty cars.... or ..... tardiness. Please, PLEASE, for the love of Johnson & Johnson Wax and chamois cloths, clean your car, get it detailed, make sure the floor boards and under the seats are vacuumed, and for the LOVE of Windex, please make sure the windows are spotless, mirrors too. Also, make sure the interior seats are well groomed. Make sure the car smells divine (synonym for clean). Be Clean. Bee On Time. Bonus points for making sure all tires are properly aired and balanced... __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. I’m doing my part, as an American citizen, who is concerned about losing our Democracy: I boycott agencies and businesses and service providers who do not support the US Constitution and the Bill of Rights. Support Democracy: Vote Blue

08-11-2017, 07:27 PM	#142
cinnamongrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?: wild woman Relationship Status: No, thank you. Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time… Posts: 7,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,246 Thanked 27,604 Times in 6,959 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, __________________ Last edited by cinnamongrrl; 08-11-2017 at 07:29 PM. Reason: wrong forum...sorry im tipsy

01-22-2018, 12:10 PM	#143
PlatinumPearl Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, Human Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Canada Posts: 1,150 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 966 Thanked 2,419 Times in 890 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	Language Profanity. You can be absolutely amazing but if you use foul language consistently to express yourself it's an instant turn-off for me. However, with that being said there are time where it can be appropriate though...

01-22-2018, 12:28 PM	#144
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,015 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	When someone with a negative assumption and comments on something you say, that's not needed. That type of rudeness is a huge turn off . I'm very attracted to a classy person as a friend or date . __________________ ~ Always, ocean

01-22-2018, 05:32 PM	#147
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,445 Times in 7,285 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker. Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this. I think it is kind of creepy. wink, wink Ooh. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

01-22-2018, 04:01 PM	#145
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	emotionally cold personality

01-22-2018, 05:22 PM	#146
cutegrrl Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single but taken Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: here and there Posts: 21 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21 Thanked 31 Times in 9 Posts Rep Power: 15	Stupidity and ignorance.

01-22-2018, 06:25 PM	#148
Ascot Member How Do You Identify?: Preppy Butch artist Relationship Status: Riding solo Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: North of the Emerald City Posts: 1,135 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 179 Thanked 2,487 Times in 549 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Weird presumptions. You're butch, so you must blah, blah. You're well educated so you must think this way. You're white so of course you feel the same way I do, etc. Major timidity about trying new things. Trepidation is okay if we don't let it cripple us. The classic chestnut, bad hygiene. __________________ Now, if I could just find a way to get paid for what I can do with my tongue and a cherry stem.

01-22-2018, 06:48 PM	#149
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	back to Anya winkie blinkie at Anya Heh Heh! Only joking around ... but you knew because you are smart like that.

01-22-2018, 06:59 PM	#151
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	Lacking even the minimum ... a modicum of social grace ... aka manners! I don't expect her to know what fork goes with what course but I do need her to be attuned to when "please" and "thank you" are appropriate.

01-22-2018, 07:09 PM	#152
Ascot Member How Do You Identify?: Preppy Butch artist Relationship Status: Riding solo Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: North of the Emerald City Posts: 1,135 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 179 Thanked 2,487 Times in 549 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Treating anyone in a service capacity with anything less than respect. That's a major no-no with me! __________________ Now, if I could just find a way to get paid for what I can do with my tongue and a cherry stem.

01-22-2018, 07:18 PM	#153
EnchantedNightDweller Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her, she Relationship Status: Being single is a good thing and I like it. Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: Texas Posts: 1,492 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,907 Thanked 2,462 Times in 803 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Here's my top 3: You're a racist. You don't like kids. You don't like animals.

01-22-2018, 08:42 PM	#156
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,925 Times in 25,666 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	Winks can turn into twitches and ticks surprisingly fast. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

01-22-2018, 08:44 PM	#157
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	being rude then pretending they were "just kidding" being dismissive to ANYONE (including pets) failure to communicate, covers HUGE area.

01-22-2018, 10:42 PM	#159
Medusa Mentally Delicious How Do You Identify?: Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?: Mme. Relationship Status: Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 10,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,995 Thanked 42,683 Times in 7,831 Posts Rep Power: 10000026	Instant turn-off = Fakery and disingenuousness. Like, that thing where you meet people who are bullshit artists. They aren’t even themselves, just bits and pieces they’ve gleaned as “special” from other people’s experiences or personalities. No no no! __________________ . . . Buy ButchFemmePlanet Merch Here: https://teespring.com/stores/butchfemmeplanetcom-merch

01-23-2018, 02:22 AM	#160
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,705 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Some instant turn-off Lying is something I despise (the main offense). Excessive swearing (especially when unnecessary) Impolite behavior to anyone. I don't care if it's the janitor, they deserve acknowledgement. An individual is not equal only to the job they hold. Even professors can be schmucks. __________________ Insurrection is an art, and like all arts has its own laws. -----Leon Trotsky