Pressure to "prove" yourself?

Chancie · 02-23-2011, 05:54 PM

You already know

You shouldn't have to prove yourself to anyone.

I don't remember where you live, but

Maybe it would be fun for you to make some new queer friends.

I know that when I was newly single,

The best thing I did for myself was to expand my social circle, and I wasn't newly out.

I got to meet a lot of fun people and none of them encouraged me to date men, though

There were plenty of people who thought I was the girliest thing ever.

Sometimes I got to lead butches around on the dance floor.

02-23-2011, 05:54 PM	#18
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,518 Thanked 14,540 Times in 2,744 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	You already know You shouldn't have to prove yourself to anyone. I don't remember where you live, but Maybe it would be fun for you to make some new queer friends. I know that when I was newly single, The best thing I did for myself was to expand my social circle, and I wasn't newly out. I got to meet a lot of fun people and none of them encouraged me to date men, though There were plenty of people who thought I was the girliest thing ever. Sometimes I got to lead butches around on the dance floor.