Light a candle

Tommi · 11-06-2011, 09:33 AM

Even burned bridges, can be rebuilt.

I've been spending some time away from virtual life, and in the real world with a dear Ex who was at deaths door. Years together and years ago we had an ugly breakup, and both suffered horribly, emotionally and financially. She kept me away from a child we had raised that was then 17 , for over a year. I left her for a younger woman in 1997. We were cordial over the years, my daughter Leia and I made peace and eventually Peggie and I came to a place of phone calls every now to chat about Leia ,Leia's seperation and reconciliation with hubby and always when we get pictures of the grandkids.

Sept. 18 she was dying, she was unable to breathe and called me, and simply said " Can you come by, I'd like to talk to you. I want you to have Freedom (her cat) if anything happens."

As some of you that know me personally and we have talked, it has been a journey of physical and emotional healing and hope. I rushed through 45 minutes of traffic and rushed her to the hospital that day. She spent some time in Cardiac ICU and Seven weeks later she is better, not completely better, but COPD and pulmonary hypertension are improved. Peg's son is in Oregon. Friday Leia and the family moved from Ellsworh AFB South Dakota to Wright Patterson in Ohio.

So, even when we have loved and lost and moved on, there is a time and a place that you may feel the hand of a higher power taking charge of your life. So, I have let Go and am going with the day to day flow of cosmic energy and karmic reality. I am going to watch football, then go pick her up and take her to brunch....O 2 tanks and all.

Just stopped by to say thanks for the light from ya'll.

Keep her in the light and until we can find the place where she needs to be. She can't live alone, and we sure can't live together.

11-06-2011, 09:33 AM	#11
Tommi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Usually "Hello" Relationship Status: Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach. Posts: 8,151 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,621 Thanked 21,338 Times in 5,970 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	A Love Story Of Healing Even burned bridges, can be rebuilt. I've been spending some time away from virtual life, and in the real world with a dear Ex who was at deaths door. Years together and years ago we had an ugly breakup, and both suffered horribly, emotionally and financially. She kept me away from a child we had raised that was then 17 , for over a year. I left her for a younger woman in 1997. We were cordial over the years, my daughter Leia and I made peace and eventually Peggie and I came to a place of phone calls every now to chat about Leia ,Leia's seperation and reconciliation with hubby and always when we get pictures of the grandkids. Sept. 18 she was dying, she was unable to breathe and called me, and simply said " Can you come by, I'd like to talk to you. I want you to have Freedom (her cat) if anything happens." As some of you that know me personally and we have talked, it has been a journey of physical and emotional healing and hope. I rushed through 45 minutes of traffic and rushed her to the hospital that day. She spent some time in Cardiac ICU and Seven weeks later she is better, not completely better, but COPD and pulmonary hypertension are improved. Peg's son is in Oregon. Friday Leia and the family moved from Ellsworh AFB South Dakota to Wright Patterson in Ohio. So, even when we have loved and lost and moved on, there is a time and a place that you may feel the hand of a higher power taking charge of your life. So, I have let Go and am going with the day to day flow of cosmic energy and karmic reality. I am going to watch football, then go pick her up and take her to brunch....O 2 tanks and all. Just stopped by to say thanks for the light from ya'll. Keep her in the light and until we can find the place where she needs to be. She can't live alone, and we sure can't live together.