Do you *want* people to assume you're a man?

Dude · 09-02-2012, 10:19 PM

The older I get, the more I am sir'd.
I do not like it
but I don't like the alternatives either.
I think it's possible to engage with people
without using either pronoun and just be polite.

I have to admit I do like the mind-fuck area
better than blending. Queers do see me and I
relish that.

I'm not quit sure what it is about freeways but I enjoy some
good cruising action ,stuck in traffic, at times. When the
eyes are on me , I wonder if these women know what I am.
Are they straight , could they be femme? It's not like it's going to
go anywhere. Their eyes met across a crowded freeway and....

I had a strange thing happen at work yesterday. Two male co-workers
and I were talking and one commented about a female co-worker really needing to
get some ( as in get laid.) He then quickly said he was not giving IT to her.
It was like I was not even there.
Then it dawned on him , that I was right fucking there growling and ready to
insult the hell out of him.
He said oh you heard that right? I said I sure the hell did and may have
angrily flounced away. If only I could flounce better I could be mistaken
for a gay man which would somehow feel better to me, than a straight one.

> Edited to add: this is not to say that all gay men flounce but I would likely be a flouncer. If I could choose:]

There will be an incident report filled out by me. How can I not, really?
I'm so Sick of working with bozo 's . It's 2012, pull your head out already.

09-02-2012, 10:19 PM	#11
Dude Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Perusing Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: exit 5 with an exit 21 goal Posts: 1,725 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,351 Thanked 10,605 Times in 1,477 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	The older I get, the more I am sir'd. I do not like it but I don't like the alternatives either. I think it's possible to engage with people without using either pronoun and just be polite. I have to admit I do like the mind-fuck area better than blending. Queers do see me and I relish that. I'm not quit sure what it is about freeways but I enjoy some good cruising action ,stuck in traffic, at times. When the eyes are on me , I wonder if these women know what I am. Are they straight , could they be femme? It's not like it's going to go anywhere. Their eyes met across a crowded freeway and.... I had a strange thing happen at work yesterday. Two male co-workers and I were talking and one commented about a female co-worker really needing to get some ( as in get laid.) He then quickly said he was not giving IT to her. It was like I was not even there. Then it dawned on him , that I was right fucking there growling and ready to insult the hell out of him. He said oh you heard that right? I said I sure the hell did and may have angrily flounced away. If only I could flounce better I could be mistaken for a gay man which would somehow feel better to me, than a straight one. > Edited to add: this is not to say that all gay men flounce but I would likely be a flouncer. If I could choose:] There will be an incident report filled out by me. How can I not, really? I'm so Sick of working with bozo 's . It's 2012, pull your head out already.