Dating other femmes exes: what do you think?

[Martina]

Originally Posted by June

I think the difference here is that many of us have been able to develop deep, personal and important relationships with other Femmes and some haven't.

How is this making a difference in terms of this discussion?

I have a close close friend who is femme. I do not think of that friendship as in a different category than other extremely close friendships. I do not think that having this wonderful friendship gives me a significantly different perspective on the world. It's nice to be understood for some parts of myself that I might have to explain to others. On the other hand, she and I are pretty different. She is a Top and does not truly get the subby me. We are very different in terms of who we date and how we interact with our significant people. I would have more common experiences to trade with a straight male sub. But that's not the point of our friendship. While we talk sex and love, we also talk politics and work and how fucked up the commute was and our mothers' neuroses and why cats always jump on your bladder when you have to pee.