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10-14-2012, 10:25 AM
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I have another question to pose?
What if a mate has passed away? Would you mind if your best girlfriend hooked up with your partner if you passed away? If you wouldn't mind then, then what is the difference between a live ex and a passed away partner? My thoughts are: I want my friends happy I want my ex's (after the period of wishing them to be devoured by flesh eating demons has passed) happy... Every one of my relationships ended because my then partner and I were not a good match... Why would I want to prevent a possible good match where both my ex and my friend found a life time love? or even just a really good time... Would it bother me, hurt me? ya, but that's my issue... I have possession issues and if someone was once mine, then they are always mine... But I know that's not real, not healthy, and not true... It's my issue and I deal with it... The possibility of real ever lasting real mother fucking love is slim... I'm lucky to have tasted real love twice.. I wouldn't want to be the one that stood in two other people's way... even if it hurt like hell...
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10-14-2012, 10:55 AM
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If I die, I've found a place for boy of weather to go to. I'm 100% positive everyone will be happy.
Other than that have at it more power to ya! 
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10-14-2012, 12:01 PM
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that's really the only issue - watching something that hurts. And that's why you remove yourself from things you do not want to see or agree to space so neither have to watch. Dead is dead. there ain't no watchin or being botherd about anything anymore! I told "T" that if she died I would be very greatly upset. her response was "I wouldn't care how upset you'd be! I'd be dead!" then laughed. She had a point. So I told her to shut it. If someone went off with my wife, who I'm in the process of divorcing, I would highly doubt I would Give A Flying Fuck. I'm completely over emotional romantic attachment to her. However, if my mate and flatmate went off and screwed "T" the last person I had any real feelings for even though most of them have been based on friendship and she has a gf whom I really like and no commitments were ever made... I'd be ravingly upset. Why? because I still have vague fuzzed feelings for her that I'm never bloody sure of what exactly they are. I actually *told* my flatmate that because "T" has told me on several occations how hot she thinks my flatmate is and how easy it would be to fall in love with her, how anyone would. My flatmate kindly responded "ffs barb, she might well have thought about it in passing but that she tells you every so often means she's taking the piss and trying to get your knickers in a twist. You get jealous of her getting massaged elsewhere. when she was on the table, she talked about Janessa (her acupressurist) till you went toooooootally quiet than asked in that smart ass tone of voice of hers 'you getting jealous?' She tells you that to get you pissy and laugh and poke you and you love it." never the less, I let her know I would be extremely upset. She told me it wouldn't happen. Personally I wouldn't be surpised. But I would also expect her to tell me if they did. I wouldn't de-friend either of them, I have no right to make those kinds of demands and punishments. But I let her know I would. shit happens in the moment. I was verrrrry high and proud about how I'd never do that kind of thing until "T". I lose my resolve around her at times: I get jealous, I want her attention, I love it when she makes me laugh, and I adore her to bits. I can see me very much making an error if I was pushed quite hard. Which has been a real slice of humble pie to gobble down. |
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10-14-2012, 12:16 PM
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I thought about boy of weather kissing June Daddy on the neck in that kinda way I get kissed and it made me a little sad. I'd have to leave the room or turn off the computer if I got in a but but that was my thing head space. I'd be hurt cause well June's my Daddy/Homie/Family, boy of weather eh, what a douche bag for not having better lines.
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10-14-2012, 12:21 PM
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10-14-2012, 12:21 PM
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10-14-2012, 12:34 PM
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10-14-2012, 02:06 PM
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10-14-2012, 05:01 PM
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If I'm dead and can't see/feel/know what's going on, it doesn't matter. If I'm dead and I am able to keep an eye on things and like what's happening and who's dating and doing who(m), then goody goody gumdrops for everyone. I'll make it rain big, fat lollipops. If I'm dead and I am able to keep an eye on things and I don't like my ex's new girl or guy, I'm totally haunting their asses cuz I'm evil and bitchy like that. 
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10-14-2012, 05:16 PM
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i've requested that if i should die, that Syr never date another, because i would come back and cut the bitch.
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10-14-2012, 05:35 PM
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The love goes on....
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If i die... I would actually LOVE Bully to re-cohabitate with the whinyest, weirdest, funniest, craziest, big babyish, non normal femme she could find. She's happy with that. I'm living proof.
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10-14-2012, 05:46 PM
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I have betrothed Jackhammer to one of my girlfriends. She (my girlfriend) doesn't know it yet.
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10-14-2012, 05:53 PM
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If Adele goes queer, I am first in line.
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10-14-2012, 05:54 PM
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 I'm not tall enough to ride emotional roller coasters Last edited by JustJo; 10-14-2012 at 05:55 PM. Reason: omission |
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10-14-2012, 06:19 PM
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While I am here... poor boundaries can cause a lot of problems beyond just a couple and their exes. I have seen someone new introduced into a real time circle of friends via dating who had poor boundaries not only with exes but also with friends that caused a lot of issues. When there is a small community the dating pool may be small, but it also makes it even more important to respect those in your friendship and chosen family circle. Otherwise there can be lots of problems. Most of us don't date in a vacuum. There are usually others to consider. So respect and consideration for others is key when starting to date someone new.
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10-14-2012, 06:31 PM
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yanno, i often suspect that if i died people would find themselves breathing a secretive sigh of relief because they were safe at last. or is that free at last? (scratching head) either way. i say date whomever you like. life is short. i mean, i'm dead so obviously my life was shorter than yours but you get my point, yes? what?! you want i should come back and haunt you until you have no other way to be rid of me but to date? oy! date already! (shaking head) so much narrischkeit. you dont have enough to worry about alive without getting verklemptisch over who dates who when you're dead?! personally, i say if you find someone who can make a decent knish and doesnt talk about their colon too much you should marry 'em! everything else is window dressing. |
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10-14-2012, 07:03 PM
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:\ I was serious
I'm a micromanager so when I had surgery recently I stopped to think about my property, I'd not had that thought regarding boy of weather and I was like
.gif "Say What?") . So we sat down and I made the arrangements I know who I leave him with will love and protect him pretty close to what I do, plus he'd have reinforcements at anytime because I'd ask my family be it chosen or not to please always make sure everything ok. I'm not clutching to my property out of a selfish need, where ever whenever I'll know that if mine need something anything from a hug to a safe place to sleep mine will have it. If mine find another I'll rest better knowing that a good sniffer will guide mine safe. The happiness and safety led me to this decision, I went into surgery knowing everyone in my pack was safe and that I loved them.As a Sadist I secretly wish I could come back and scare the fuck out of my slaves while in some form of service so they'd fuck it up and either restart or have a lot of explaining to do. That though may belong in the BDSM zone!
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10-14-2012, 07:04 PM
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Or maybe the listening thread
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10-14-2012, 07:22 PM
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Holy heck Snow, this is one of the most impacting posts i've ever read. |
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10-14-2012, 07:32 PM
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Can someone give me the list of who I can date? At this point i think its gotten shorter, I had to scratch off Snow and Weatherboi, Jack and Medusa, June and Kat.
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