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|  12-16-2012, 05:25 PM | #7 | 
| Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Sweet Femme ones Relationship Status: Peeking around the corner... Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Rochester, NY 
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			I find it rude and demeaning. Hurtful, disrespectful. Like a femme is supposed to sit quietly and look pretty and not be heard....um, no.  I have a strong voice and opinion at times....I will be heard. I would not appreciate a headpat as a way to silence me....at all. It has been done to me in the past, and I sweetly yet firmly suggested it not be done to me again. It feels awful...like you don't matter in the situation.... I am not a dog....reserve headpatting for the furbabies please.   
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