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07-20-2013, 08:25 PM | #9 | |
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I married someone who felt about those things exactly the same as I did. Exactly. It was fantastic. We never fought about money, not once. And then forever fucked off with someone from work because her father died and she lost herself. Everything changed, very *VERY* suddenly. I didn't have a single doubt about her, not one. Not ever. And I don't trust people. But she chose someone who makes £100,000 a year with a house and to have kids with. As in she will be giving birth. She never wanted to have kids and the thought of giving birth wierded her self-concepts out. Her father dying changed everything. everything everything everything. When the divorce was in process I got a letter off of her telling me she saw our marriage as a business transaction. you could have knocked me over with a feather. This was my anti-capitolist, socialist, die hard unionist, loving partner that proposed to me in a tree in Hamstead heath with a glass ring because we couldn't afford a silver one. A business transaction. Our wedding was in the snow in amsterdam during a full lunar eclipse on the longest night of the year. A business transaction. that's all it meant to her now. Invasion of the bodysnatchers. We both had debts, not stuff. But my mom is not well and the gal I was dating at the time said "push that through asap before she gets her arsehole hands on your mom's inheritance" I was given the option to file for 12 years of alimony because of desertion. Leaving me with all the bills etc. I had left the country. what the hell did I care. But I thought about taking those 12 years of alimony to make her understand just what the fuck she did. My dad told me no. let her go and make your own money, like you always have. So I signed the opportunity away. Never ever think that people cannot suddenly change. I just learned that one. Would I have a prenup next time? I have no idea. I don't have anything. I have 9 bags of stuff and 20 boxes and a student debt. That will change when I get my inheritance but we'll see. I'm not interested in anyone else's money. I've had people offer me the moon, and very wealthy people. It never impressed me and frankly rather put me off. But who knows. But I do know that people can change on a dime. |
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