Are butches really a dying breed?

DapperButch · 02-28-2014, 09:25 PM

Perhaps butches aren't a dying breed, but it seems as though the "butch nod" is. We don't have many butch folk around here. So, last night, when I saw two in the same mexican restaurant/bar as me (separately), I was disappointed to not get the "butch nod" from either of them. Seems to me butches are giving the "nod" less.

What is up with that? Is it because they are reading me as male? I don't think so. One was a lot younger than me, the other not. They looked right through me. What is up with that?

Are other butches experiencing this? The "butch nod" is like the greatest thing ever. It puts a lift in your step. So sad.

02-28-2014, 09:25 PM	#17
DapperButch Roadster Guy How Do You Identify?: FTM, Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Posts: 7,745 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,545 Thanked 26,814 Times in 5,772 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Perhaps butches aren't a dying breed, but it seems as though the "butch nod" is. We don't have many butch folk around here. So, last night, when I saw two in the same mexican restaurant/bar as me (separately), I was disappointed to not get the "butch nod" from either of them. Seems to me butches are giving the "nod" less. What is up with that? Is it because they are reading me as male? I don't think so. One was a lot younger than me, the other not. They looked right through me. What is up with that? Are other butches experiencing this? The "butch nod" is like the greatest thing ever. It puts a lift in your step. So sad. __________________ -Dapper Are you educated or indoctrinated?