You Knew You Were a Femme When...

vagina · 04-07-2014, 11:56 PM

I knew I was a Lesbian when I told my friend at 13 that she's beautiful.

When I was a kid/teenager I always looked for the most Butch looking women when driving through the 'Gayborhood'.

I tried to impress girls and look more like a dyke by dressing the part of butch... which lasted all of 3 months. And then the cargo shorts and oversized tshirts had to go.

I had flings with women who were not Butch... and it was just that flings.

I started dating women that were tomboys. When the L word came out I had a crush on Shane and then even more on the Butches.

Finally in my midtwenties a Butch picked me up and took me home. It was only after several relationships with Butches/AGs/Studs... that I learned what a Femme is.

And I went, 'Oh, I guess I must be a Femme'.

I feel that I am Femme because my main attraction is to Butch and because I am a lesbian.

04-07-2014, 11:56 PM	#11
vagina Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Lesbian Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Lesboville Posts: 183 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 440 Thanked 446 Times in 111 Posts Rep Power: 0	I knew I was a Lesbian when I told my friend at 13 that she's beautiful. When I was a kid/teenager I always looked for the most Butch looking women when driving through the 'Gayborhood'. I tried to impress girls and look more like a dyke by dressing the part of butch... which lasted all of 3 months. And then the cargo shorts and oversized tshirts had to go. I had flings with women who were not Butch... and it was just that flings. I started dating women that were tomboys. When the L word came out I had a crush on Shane and then even more on the Butches. Finally in my midtwenties a Butch picked me up and took me home. It was only after several relationships with Butches/AGs/Studs... that I learned what a Femme is. And I went, 'Oh, I guess I must be a Femme'. I feel that I am Femme because my main attraction is to Butch and because I am a lesbian.