you dying wish's / living will

Tuff Stuff · 10-15-2015, 01:13 AM

So now it's on my mind.I witness my own parents go through old age.I don't want to end up like that..I don't..and if I have any say in it,I won't.

It's still hard to think about it,and how they passed on..which was the best thing,for both,I guess.
I still miss them.

My dying wishes here...

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=6993

Vincent · 10-15-2015, 05:33 AM

I have done my will and power of attorney,with the Govenor generals office who become executor of my estate,I have 3 young transguys legally as my power of attorney,mainly that my family is to be removed from the hospital,and have no claim on my body,I have left my body to science,I'm an atheist/Agnostic,so when I'm dead i'm dead,I have told them in detail my wishes,and being they are gen Y,they are young enough to be around.

Having just had cancer,this has made my fear of losing my own voice,much easier and given me peace of mind,for me they are like my sons,I feel honoured that they have taken on this responsibility.

JDeere · 07-30-2016, 07:01 PM

My mother and I were just discussing this topic, earlier this morning.

I need to get a living will made just in case, something happens to me before they pass on.

I am an organ donor as well, am to be cremated and they know my wishes on where I want my ashes scattered.

I can only trust my family with this, not anyone else so my siblings are aware of what to do, just need to get paperwork done.

pumpndude · 12-06-2016, 11:51 PM

For me that's easy, I still have my mom and sister with me...
I need to out live them and fulfill there wishes...
I will donate my body to science...its easy and free
If I do find that special femme to spend the rest of my life with then we could
talk about this subject...

girl_dee · 04-30-2017, 04:32 AM

sometimes my health causes me to think of my mortality...

i have in place an anatomical donation set up..when i go, call the medical school

i've already spoken to my family to ask what they need when its my time to go... if they need a grave, or an urn or whatever they may need to grieve and move on... we had *the talk* long ago... they said they are happy with whatever i wanted to do.. i believe dying is about the living...

So after all of these years of relying on medical science to keep me alive, they can have my old worn out self when i am done with it.....

Chad · 04-30-2017, 06:02 AM

I really want someone to state that I am gone on my page so that friends here will know.

I have a will that my son will administer when I am gone.

I hope to be here for several more decades.

*Anya* · 04-30-2017, 09:17 AM

Lambda Legal has great information on their website in order to add your specific wishes to your healthcare directive.

http://www.lambdalegal.org/sites/def...are-wishes.pdf

As a human being and an RN, I am embarrassed to admit that that I don't have a healthcare directive and I don't have a will, either.

I have had a couple of instances over the past few years in which things could have turned out the ultimate worst for me medically.

That is a convoluted sentence to try not to say that I could have, and was sick enough; to leave this earth.

I need to make the time now that I am working part-time, to take care of this ultimate and most important business.

I want each of my daughters to get my invested money, my 401k's and my life insurance.

I surely don't want it to have to go to probate.

Nor do I want to have a vent or feeding tube if there were no chance of recovery. My oldest daughter would not want them removed but my youngest would honor my wishes.

The old adage is true: If it is not written, it does not exist.

Tuff Stuff · 07-30-2019, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Tuff Stuff

So now it's on my mind.I witness my own parents go through old age.I don't want to end up like that..I don't..and if I have any say in it,I won't.

It's still hard to think about it,and how they passed on..which was the best thing,for both,I guess.
I still miss them.

My dying wishes here...

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=6993

Death is inevitable huh.I change one or two things in my past posts and that is I will probably live past age 55 and one day when I eventually get old and can no longer live the life I wish I will go into the mountains and lay my tired body down and become some wild bears lunch,dinner or whatever. I'm hoping though that before some wild beast devours me I will be dead and stiff from exposure..gawd let's hope.

~ocean · 07-30-2019, 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tuff Stuff

Death is inevitable huh.I change one or two things in my past posts and that is I will probably live past age 55 and one day when I eventually get old and can no longer live the life I wish I will go into the mountains and lay my tired body down and become some wild bears lunch,dinner or whatever. I'm hoping though that before some wild beast devours me I will be dead and stiff from exposure..gawd let's hope.

lol NOT so tuff stuff I mean this endearingly ~ You can't make this call ~ it's not in your hands ~ I agree w/ death assisted ending to life ~ my opinion in suicide is selfish and cowardly. C'est la Vie

kassykit · 08-24-2019, 07:24 AM

The major thing that I want frommy life is to have made a difference. Big or small just having made the world a bit of a better place.

I think this is why I decided to pursue my PhD. I can teach and touch the lives of many people in small and large ways.

Silly of me I suppose and a bit unrealistic in the grand scheme of things but it is my wish.

As for dying, well I am at time curious as to what it would be like to end the pain I live in each day. I have multiple chronic illnesses that cause me to struggle immensely with day-to-day activities. Some days it is hard for me to do the simplest things but I keep pushing because as of right now I still have a goal I have not met.

I was once told I would never graduate college, so my being a stubborn bitch decided oh hey let me get my PhD and show that even people who come from poverty and have multiple illnesses can do what they have been told they cannot.

All things aside, I fight for a world where being a submissive femme lesbian is not something that will brand me as "target" for those who think all i need is the right man.....

shared probably too much here but eh, take it as it is.

10-15-2015, 05:33 AM	#2
Vincent Member How Do You Identify?: Transman Preferred Pronoun?: Him,he Relationship Status: just me Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: Tweed Heads Australia Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,204 Thanked 936 Times in 335 Posts Rep Power: 12178444	I have done my will and power of attorney,with the Govenor generals office who become executor of my estate,I have 3 young transguys legally as my power of attorney,mainly that my family is to be removed from the hospital,and have no claim on my body,I have left my body to science,I'm an atheist/Agnostic,so when I'm dead i'm dead,I have told them in detail my wishes,and being they are gen Y,they are young enough to be around. Having just had cancer,this has made my fear of losing my own voice,much easier and given me peace of mind,for me they are like my sons,I feel honoured that they have taken on this responsibility. __________________ https://soundcloud.com/conormont https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kb1y2xyfYSw If Not Me-Who If Not Now-When If Not Here-Where

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pumpndude Member How Do You Identify?: Good Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: Sonora, CA Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3 Thanked 211 Times in 70 Posts Rep Power: 1503251	For me that's easy, I still have my mom and sister with me... I need to out live them and fulfill there wishes... I will donate my body to science...its easy and free If I do find that special femme to spend the rest of my life with then we could talk about this subject... __________________ Everything Ending Is Also A Beginning We Just Don't Know It At The Time

04-30-2017, 09:17 AM	#7
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,456 Times in 7,283 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Lambda Legal has great information on their website in order to add your specific wishes to your healthcare directive. http://www.lambdalegal.org/sites/def...are-wishes.pdf As a human being and an RN, I am embarrassed to admit that that I don't have a healthcare directive and I don't have a will, either. I have had a couple of instances over the past few years in which things could have turned out the ultimate worst for me medically. That is a convoluted sentence to try not to say that I could have, and was sick enough; to leave this earth. I need to make the time now that I am working part-time, to take care of this ultimate and most important business. I want each of my daughters to get my invested money, my 401k's and my life insurance. I surely don't want it to have to go to probate. Nor do I want to have a vent or feeding tube if there were no chance of recovery. My oldest daughter would not want them removed but my youngest would honor my wishes. The old adage is true: If it is not written, it does not exist. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

08-24-2019, 07:24 AM	#10
kassykit Member How Do You Identify?: Just me Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: TN Posts: 160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 115 Thanked 135 Times in 54 Posts Rep Power: 1725536	The major thing that I want frommy life is to have made a difference. Big or small just having made the world a bit of a better place. I think this is why I decided to pursue my PhD. I can teach and touch the lives of many people in small and large ways. Silly of me I suppose and a bit unrealistic in the grand scheme of things but it is my wish. As for dying, well I am at time curious as to what it would be like to end the pain I live in each day. I have multiple chronic illnesses that cause me to struggle immensely with day-to-day activities. Some days it is hard for me to do the simplest things but I keep pushing because as of right now I still have a goal I have not met. I was once told I would never graduate college, so my being a stubborn bitch decided oh hey let me get my PhD and show that even people who come from poverty and have multiple illnesses can do what they have been told they cannot. All things aside, I fight for a world where being a submissive femme lesbian is not something that will brand me as "target" for those who think all i need is the right man..... shared probably too much here but eh, take it as it is. __________________ =kassy= r/t Mishy =Love shared is love doubled.... pain shared is pain cut in half..........share your life with me, and i'll share mine with you...

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10-15-2015, 01:13 AM	#1
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	So now it's on my mind.I witness my own parents go through old age.I don't want to end up like that..I don't..and if I have any say in it,I won't. It's still hard to think about it,and how they passed on..which was the best thing,for both,I guess. I still miss them. My dying wishes here... http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=6993

07-30-2016, 07:01 PM	#3
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	My mother and I were just discussing this topic, earlier this morning. I need to get a living will made just in case, something happens to me before they pass on. I am an organ donor as well, am to be cremated and they know my wishes on where I want my ashes scattered. I can only trust my family with this, not anyone else so my siblings are aware of what to do, just need to get paperwork done.

04-30-2017, 04:32 AM	#5
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04-30-2017, 06:02 AM	#6
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,315 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I really want someone to state that I am gone on my page so that friends here will know. I have a will that my son will administer when I am gone. I hope to be here for several more decades.