Rethinking our partner wishlists. Is it "settling" or adjusting to reality?

[Blade]

Originally Posted by Blade

Great topic Kobi! I'll have to think on the rest of the questions but the answer to this last one is....If there is an age I haven't reached it yet. I'm sure there is an age, but I have no idea what age it is or is close to.

Five years later and now in my 50's, I still haven't reached that age yet. The only things I can think of that has changed is that my partner needs to be local. Not like within 10 miles but fairly local. The other thing is I've come to terms with the idea that I may never be partnered and thats ok with me too. I'd like to be, but I do understand that my wish list is quite specific

[Chad]

I have adjusted my wishlist many times and it gets shorter everytime. I don't think it is settling to adjust your wishlist. I think as we mature we figure out what works and does not work for us as individuals. I will keep trying until I am successful.

[JDeere]

Originally Posted by Chad

I have adjusted my wishlist many times and it gets shorter everytime. I don't think it is settling to adjust your wishlist. I think as we mature we figure out what works and does not work for us as individuals. I will keep trying until I am successful.

I am right there with ya Chad, I am gonna keep trying, as well.