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Dear E;
I love your style ! And certainly the head-on way you broach subjects that seem to be "blind spots" in the vision test. This thread is an eye-opening education regarding the Femme "smackdown" by way of Butch, Patriarchal, Societal and the worst (from my perspective) the sabotage of Femme Cannibalism. It's that "friendly fire" , being shanked by a stiletto, that has always perplexed me. We are all fighting mortal combat in an effort to be seen and not steamrolled into a homogeny of expectation. But it pains me to think that femmes feel they have been relegated to "Best Supporting Actress" in our symbiotic relationships (Femme - Butch) when the meat and potatoes of validation is : see me for who I am. I love this thread, and I have much to recognize. Perhaps this is my first lesson in understanding Butchbull behavior in the Femme china shop (not meant to infer Femmes are delicate) as well as the snares and pitfalls of Femme V Femme. Lambaste me if you will, but I'm hanging around the halls ...this thread is good stuff ! signed : Excuse me Waiter, there's a butch in my soup.... Boots |
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