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She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.
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It is for sure possible for a soulmate to be a spouse tho.
Sunshine & I frequently tell each other "get out of my head"...but it is so much deeper than that. When u can sense what the other is feeling... When you call & it just so happens to be perfect timing... When you are apart & it feels like part of you is missing... When you hug for the first time & feel as tho that is exactly where you belong... Yet I do understand. I understand being absolutely skeptical....until you have it. Cause then...there is not a doubt in your mind.
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05-01-2011, 06:10 AM
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I do believe in soulmates,,, I believe we could only have just one in this lifetime...
She's the one who can see me crystal clear ... 
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Yanno, I've felt I've had real special connections with a good handful of girls along the way...soulmate-ish stuff going on, that knowing what they're going to say, the freaky 'i was just gonna call you too' stuff. Then ya find way down the line that they weren't really what you thought.
However, I've found two fantastic women thus far in my 47yr life who I consider to be my soulmate, my true family. They will always be in my life, we will always care deeply about each other no matter where we end up. One I've had to let go of to see if she comes back - however she's not gone away yet! I still share a house with the woman who I consider the great love of my life, I wasn't ready for her when I had her and lost her as a partner which was no bad thing really, we should never have been lovers. We're 'siblings', that's what we should have been from the start but I love her deeply and always will. The soul-mate thang is pie in the sky, white picket fence thinking but there will always be those extra special people in our lives that will make us believe in abstract concepts and fairy dust. |
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05-01-2011, 06:55 AM
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If soul mates exist, then mine is now
 I'm not convinced however, were I to have met him 5/10/15 years ago, would he have been the right person then? 5 years ago I thought I'd met the love of my life. 10 years ago I didn't wish to settle down with anyone, I was too busy running and 15 years ago I would never have understood his gender struggles. I believe that the right person comes at the right time, but are they your soul mate? If life waits for love, then maybe.
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I enjoyed reading everyone's feedback!
For me......... spending almost or a lifetime and in some case,sadly , till death do us part with unconditional devotions and to know that our love was a gift from God above. 
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(you have been pushing that in my head for a while my friend) ... And yes, unfortunately, that is sometimes what it takes to get you guys to look our way (not even trying to push and ask for an approach, just a look and we can take over from there, if needed). *thinking I need to seriously make a trip to Home Depot* 
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I think there's lots of potentially good relationships out there for most people, and that it's mostly a matter of chance and timing as to who you end up with.
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My take on ppl...
There comes a point in your life when you realize: Who matters, Who never did, Who won't anymore... ...And who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future...
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Yes.
You can have more than one. Everyone that is brought into your life is there for a reason. There is something for you to learn from them and vice versa. When that is done, things change, and you part ways. There are cases, though, that the lessons that were supposed to be learned are NOT learned, and though you've parted ways, you keep re-entering each other's lives. However, soulmates don't necessarily have to be romantic. Thus far, I've been fortunate enough to have 2. |
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Wow! Lot's of great responses here. Really enjoy reading what folks believe and why.
I think I have to agree most closely with Softness. I do believe in soulmates, as the complement to who I am. But just because they're a soulmate doesn't mean there's no work involved. Also, to me, the love with a soulmate feels different. I have loved and been in love with many people. I have only been in love to the depth that I identify as soulmate twice. Once with someone that I have been with over many lifetimes. I do not follow the beliefs, however, that soulmates are the soul seperated, or even that the soulmate completes the person. More a complement, but mostly it is a depth of feeling. But yes, I believe in them. And yes, I believe you can have more than one. Get out there and meet people, date, fall in love, and maybe if your lucky you will come across one, maybe two, that will make that unique connection. A Last edited by pajama; 09-20-2010 at 03:32 AM. Reason: they're, their, and there |
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my soul doesn't need a mate.
I prefer to think of partners as lifemates.. some come for a short time in life.. others a lifetime.. I find the term *soulmate* so overused it has no meaning. there is no right or wrong but I don't believe in mating my soul. I think some people have a *lustmate* and confuse this with *soulmate*... |
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*soulmate* is the one person who knows you all the way down to the core of your being... Your smile, your voice tones, your secrets, your flaws...& loves you Because of them... The person with whom you can communicate with (without words) no matter where you are or what situation you are in, be it alone in the bedroom or hosting a wonderful party with all of your friends... They know when you need to be alone or when you need a hug and everything in between, & do and say just the right things at just the right moments... & the only person who can make you smile when you really want to cry... YES...it is rare to have someone know you so well...and you know them that well in return...but definitely someone who really makes you FEEL complete, not just happy or full of lust...but complete! *soft smile*
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Yes I strongly believe that there is someone out there for everyone and maybe you just haven't met yet but I was in a six year relationship the love of my life so I had thought . But things happen for a reason and now I've been single for quite sometime and I am sure one day I will meet another who will share my life through good an or bad times.
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No, I don't believe that is everyone's path on the planet...for some, yes..but not all.
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soulmate there is one in our lives ..a freind cane be a soulmate .. a lover as well. there r many levels of love, and we can love many times in a life time. if u wait for that one person to come along .. u r missing many oppertunitys to experience a lover .. who can become ur soulmate.. even if u never have a soulmate ..that doesnt mean u didnt love to ur fullest, or have been loved .. enjoy life ~ ocean
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Short answer: no. I think the idea is out of romantic novels and movies.
Longer answer (and you knew it was coming!  ): I think there are any number of people that we could be happy with in a relationship. I think compatitibility and committment are much more important than that "instant connection". Attraction is instant, real love takes a boatload of work. I also don't believe in finding one's "better half" or the someone to "complete" you, or fill up some emptiness inside. I believe instead you better well be complete and filled on your own before you even try to find someone. To search around for completion or someone to fill in the blanks is asking for an unhealthy relationship.
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