Who's my Daddy?

[EnderD_503]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I think Sober boi is having a difficulty with verbiage and is not meaning any ill intent.

At least I am giving them that benefit of the doubt and trying understand what they seek which is:

boy seeks Butch Top male identified is Sober's preference. Daddy/boi/boy relationships are rare and Sober is reaching out to see what he could find here.

I could be wrong...

This is what I got out of it as well. I think it's mostly a vocab issue. What I'm getting is that they are a boi and bottom and looking for a butch top, but don't want to be seen as less masculine becuse of it, or that they've been called a femme because of certain misconceptions in the past and want to clarify that they don't ID that way? At least that's how I interpreted it.

Soberboi, btw, do you prefer female pronouns or male pronouns? Your preferred pronoun says "she," but you later say you're male id'd. If you id as male but still want the "she" pronoun that's cool, I just want to make sure I'm not misreading anything, so stuck with "they" for now. Hope you don't mind.