Who's my Daddy?

SoberBoi · 05-12-2011, 05:34 AM

Chancie,

I was talking to someone from BFP and she said to just ask people about their experience finding a Daddy. I want to understand the Daddy/Boi dynamic better.

As for the "who's going to be the girl" comment, what I meant was that I personally would want to be with a stronger butch than myself, but not wanting someone who would try to treat me like a femme to complete a butch/femme dynamic.

I want to be with someone who understands that, while I may not be a tough butch, that I am still male identified. I like to say that I am like Will from Will and Grace...not a femme like Jack, but not a very butch guy. Will was always trying to date more masculine guys, but he was lousy at team sports and other masculine myths.

Thanks for responding. I really want to hear other people's experiences of being in a Daddy/Boi dynamic.

Thanks,
SB

05-12-2011, 05:34 AM	#3
SoberBoi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM, Robert Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Sharing my journey with God... ;) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Hackettstown,NJ Posts: 30 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 68 Thanked 52 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 219327	Chancie, I was talking to someone from BFP and she said to just ask people about their experience finding a Daddy. I want to understand the Daddy/Boi dynamic better. As for the "who's going to be the girl" comment, what I meant was that I personally would want to be with a stronger butch than myself, but not wanting someone who would try to treat me like a femme to complete a butch/femme dynamic. I want to be with someone who understands that, while I may not be a tough butch, that I am still male identified. I like to say that I am like Will from Will and Grace...not a femme like Jack, but not a very butch guy. Will was always trying to date more masculine guys, but he was lousy at team sports and other masculine myths. Thanks for responding. I really want to hear other people's experiences of being in a Daddy/Boi dynamic. Thanks, SB