Butch friends

[Julie]

Originally Posted by Merlin

I find when I have femme friends I end up sleeping with them. I have more hetro friends,maybe subconciously I surround myself with them to play it safe.

Perhaps this is why you have few butch friends.
Prior to being on this site - most of my friends were butch or gay men. A few straight female friends and very few femme friends.

I am femme and I can share a bed with my butch friends and know - NOT EVER - would either one of us cross that line. Why would we? We are simply friends.

Perhaps the fact you sexualize relationships. Maybe something to think about.

Julie who is now well balanced in her circle of friends.