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|  08-24-2011, 11:29 AM | #41 | |
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			Gosh so much that I want to respond to in here right now. First, I have dated women who were a range of body shapes and sizes, some more slender than me, some larger than me, and some in between. And I can say that not once was there ANYTHING about their bodies that I felt like I had to "look past" or "try to accept" or do anything about other than lust after and enjoy. Not once. Not ever. If I'm attracted to someone then I am attracted to them, period. But it's always easier to apply these lessons to other people than it is to oneself. Be patient with yourself. I have battled body issues on several fronts (and the occasional rear) for a long time and am still trying to get it right. Wish I had time to stay more, but I ought to get back to work. Oh and I had heard of Adipositivity but had never been to the site before -- but hello! Really amazing. 
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|  08-24-2011, 12:33 PM | #43 | 
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|  08-24-2011, 12:42 PM | #44 | 
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			No hot butches? Nobody who weighs over 107? Do you live in Vancouver? We were the stand in for LA in The L Word, you know.   Typing this on an iPhone keyboard is insanity. 
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|  08-24-2011, 12:47 PM | #45 | ||
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|  08-24-2011, 01:12 PM | #46 | |
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|  08-24-2011, 01:17 PM | #47 | |
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|  08-24-2011, 01:20 PM | #48 | 
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			Geez people are all fancy on their iPhones and iPads ~ I'm only on My poor little laptop LOL
		 
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|  08-24-2011, 01:24 PM | #49 | |
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|  08-24-2011, 01:25 PM | #50 | |
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|  08-24-2011, 01:27 PM | #51 | |
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 I'm *SO* zipping My lips shut and NOT saying anything because I'd probably get in shyt for it LOL 
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|  08-24-2011, 01:34 PM | #52 | ||
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 BWAHAHAHAHHAH!!! You just made my day!!! I "like" crack too! lol Oh come on, now! How much trouble can you get in the same convo with a person who has "Scandal" in their name for good reason? 
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|  08-24-2011, 01:56 PM | #53 | |
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|  08-24-2011, 01:58 PM | #54 | |
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 It happened to me late last night. The iPad corrected 'dykes' to 'dukes'. I laughed at that. 
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|  08-24-2011, 02:03 PM | #55 | |
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|  08-24-2011, 02:08 PM | #56 | 
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			HA i live in everett which isnt far from seattle
		 
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|  08-24-2011, 02:40 PM | #59 | 
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			I am moving to palm springs sept 19th
		 
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