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Gosh so much that I want to respond to in here right now. First, I have dated women who were a range of body shapes and sizes, some more slender than me, some larger than me, and some in between. And I can say that not once was there ANYTHING about their bodies that I felt like I had to "look past" or "try to accept" or do anything about other than lust after and enjoy. Not once. Not ever. If I'm attracted to someone then I am attracted to them, period.
But it's always easier to apply these lessons to other people than it is to oneself. Be patient with yourself. I have battled body issues on several fronts (and the occasional rear) for a long time and am still trying to get it right. Wish I had time to stay more, but I ought to get back to work. Oh and I had heard of Adipositivity but had never been to the site before -- but hello! Really amazing.
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No hot butches? Nobody who weighs over 107? Do you live in Vancouver? We were the stand in for LA in The L Word, you know.
Typing this on an iPhone keyboard is insanity.
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Geez, maybe Vancouver is alot more like Winnipeg than I thought
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I live in Palm Springs! I imagine iPhone typing is a bitch. I'm on my iPad right now and it's a bit frustrating to say the least! |
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Geez people are all fancy on their iPhones and iPads ~ I'm only on My poor little laptop LOL
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BWAHAHAHAHHAH!!! You just made my day!!! I "like" crack too! lol Oh come on, now! How much trouble can you get in the same convo with a person who has "Scandal" in their name for good reason?
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**Shakes head** Ayup, that spells bad news for us LOL
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I'll come too, I've always wanted to visit Seattle (heck I'd love to move there someday) especially so I can watch My Mariners play baseball and My Seahawks play football
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HA i live in everett which isnt far from seattle
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