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Well it would have all the potential problems that the site has: some people just there to cause trouble/conflicts, some people being intolerant and bigoted with respect to others, etc. And then those who might take advantage of the kindness and generosity of others. Duplicity, etc.
I guess what I am saying is that there would have to be a rigorous screening policy before letting people in. And there might be politics around said screening policy, and camps might spring up and get divided, etc. I am not saying it's not a great idea, I guess I am just aware of all the potential pitfalls of such a thing. Nothing that is good and right and important is easy. |
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10-23-2011, 06:50 PM
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We had no conflict, we had no duplicty, like any small community there would be problems that could arise, but this would be reality - and not the internet where all we can do is time out someone. People wouldn't move there that weren't interested in being there and sharing the space IMHO.
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10-23-2011, 08:09 PM
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First off, congratulations on winning (saying your affirmations in the hear and now strengthens them); 1.I would want to live on a BFP compound in my own little place. Not in a dormitory though. I have to have utter silence in large portions of my life. 2.I am a psychic. I can tell you shit. I am a great cook. I can make you fat and happy. I am a fair mediator and can help folks negotiate intricate, yucky personal matters. I can do pedicures on cats, rabbits, ferrets and dogs. I tell great bedtime stories. I'm great with kids. 3. Absolutely not on the community meals. I'd rather that was a once a week thing as a meeting time or just gathering. I love communal food gatherings but I would not be happy if they were all the time. Maybe as a drop in thing? 4. Yes on rent. A certain percentage of sweat equity plus cold, hard cash. 5. As long as privacy was respected and noise levels maintained, it would be all good. As Wolfy so wisely points out...that's what vacations are for. 6a. Pros: A community who gets me. A family who would be there for the long haul. 6b. Cons: A community who is, by definition, defined by sexual preferences on any level is going to see NRE (New Relationship Energy), Lesbian Bed Death, Bitter Breakups. We would have to have rules in place that were voted upon, agreed upon and not slung aside at the first drop of an "Important Couple" breaking up. 7. I love the idea and would be there as long as a whole hell of a lot of communication happened. Knowing this crowd, I don't think that's an issue. |
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10-23-2011, 08:13 PM
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My vision would be that it would look like a loose subdivision with everyone having their own house. We'd have several different housing styles available: 3 bedroom/2 bath, 2 bedroom/1 bath, and 1 bedroom/1 bath.
I like the idea of having common space in the middle but everyone could retire to their private houses when the community stuff got to be overwhelming. 
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10-23-2011, 08:19 PM
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I volunteer to be a nurse in belle's hospital wing
. If there is any money left...after the houses are built...or if we bring in any money, could we also start a fund for a care facility for those in our community when we become aged and/or unable to take care of ourselves unassisted?
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10-23-2011, 08:21 PM
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10-23-2011, 08:24 PM
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We have: Zombie Street Penpal Street I'd like to see a "You are belong to me Way"
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10-23-2011, 08:27 PM
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love the idea and perhaps a small dairy hmmm..
only flaw for me is distance from my daughter she is the EX"s bio daughter and I can not be away from her and the EX she is one of those who looks down her nose at the Butch Femme dynamic
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We'll have our own fruit and vegetable garden. I'm not good with gardens, but I would be happy to slaughter the lambs.. I love lambs.
 Sorry vegetarians and vegans.. I want to be part of security too. And horses..... for riding, not eating... 
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Maybe I just have jealousy issues for those of you that got to go to the reunion, because for us, we really WANTED to go, but didn't HAVE the time. I'm sure you're not implying non attendees just couldn't be bothered to attend? I'm just reading this through my sensitive filter?
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But I was there. And I think I behaved even - reformed troublemaker that I am.
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10-24-2011, 05:55 PM
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