How important is language?

macele · 11-02-2011, 06:06 PM

is she new to coming out?

a butch woman sometimes needs a femmes approval, i think.
if she is tying to figure out if she is a homosexual or a transsexual.

just speaking from my experience,
it's a big relief when a femme really digs your tomboy ways.

not all lesbians are attracted to other women with masculine ways.
may be she is questioning you for that reason. she wants to know if you like.

insecurity can be a mega factor for a butch just coming out.
i'd say she is questioning herself.

i don't know the statistics, but they have to be high, ...
that most butch women wonder if they are really supposed to be male.
she has to work thru a lot. it's thought about, for sure.

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11-02-2011, 06:06 PM	#11
macele Member How Do You Identify?: a bold-assed maximus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: mississippi Posts: 1,066 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,178 Thanked 3,231 Times in 847 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	is she new to coming out? a butch woman sometimes needs a femmes approval, i think. if she is tying to figure out if she is a homosexual or a transsexual. just speaking from my experience, it's a big relief when a femme really digs your tomboy ways. not all lesbians are attracted to other women with masculine ways. may be she is questioning you for that reason. she wants to know if you like. insecurity can be a mega factor for a butch just coming out. i'd say she is questioning herself. i don't know the statistics, but they have to be high, ... that most butch women wonder if they are really supposed to be male. she has to work thru a lot. it's thought about, for sure.