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Old 11-23-2011, 11:36 AM   #1
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My surgery is scheduled for December 9th! I am to be an early AM case...sooo....I will have an Exploratory Laparoscopy with Colectomy (colon resection) via open abdomen AND a Total Hystero via same incision! The Gastro Oncologist is going in first, then when he is done, the Gynie Oncologist will do her hystero magic! I will be in the hospital for 7 to 10 days. Rather than try to update each personally, UPDATES will be posted here!!! I am so going to kick this bugger's royal ass...mess with me..I will show it who is Alpha here!!! <smiles>
PS I have the lovely good luck to have to do a second colonoscopy the 29th. This time I get day one a bottle of mag. citrate, day two a GALLON of GoLytely! I will be having a "GoLytely" martini party..and will gladly share a glass with any of you....smiles...have an awesome day...Clay
Hi, Clay. Just a reminder that my illness was colon cancer and I had a colon resection via the traditional, open method. I actually had to have a second resection because I an obstruction a couple of weeks later. SO, since I did it twice, I know quite a bit about the recovery if you need some info. at any point along the way.

Feel free to PM me. Hang in there. Glad to see your enthusiam at kicking this in the butt!
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Just a pre-holiday update....

Just got off the phone with my mother. She cheerfully tells me that the mass is gone, but that she forgot to pick up the written report.

She also tells me that they have taken her down to 12 hours in 24 on the TPN, in part to stimulate her appetite.

Her weight is up to 118.

Her next appointment is December 8 with the urologist (about that kidney that was acting up)...and she has chemo before that....but now I can book her flight for anything December 10 or after.

I should feel better about all of this, except that she sounds like she's lying.

I could call her doctor and ask for the truth...but I'm honestly just past it.

All of our old crap is coming back up...and I'm in for a 3 or 4 month flashback of my youth.

Someone please have bail money ready.
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Just a pre-holiday update....

Just got off the phone with my mother. She cheerfully tells me that the mass is gone, but that she forgot to pick up the written report.

She also tells me that they have taken her down to 12 hours in 24 on the TPN, in part to stimulate her appetite.

Her weight is up to 118.

Her next appointment is December 8 with the urologist (about that kidney that was acting up)...and she has chemo before that....but now I can book her flight for anything December 10 or after.

I should feel better about all of this, except that she sounds like she's lying.

I could call her doctor and ask for the truth...but I'm honestly just past it.

All of our old crap is coming back up...and I'm in for a 3 or 4 month flashback of my youth.

Someone please have bail money ready.
Okay . Threeeeee deeeeeep cleansing breaths. The good and the bad, the yin and the yang, and the mother that is untrustworthy .Hmmm maybe some more deep breaths...and some chocloate, maybe?
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Morning all! Clay is at the hospital for her second scoping, please send warm thoughts and good vibes her way!

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Thanks for the hugs...smiles...and the update here!

POST ENDOSCOPY: I am home, resting...the Doc found a smaller nodule somewhere by the original malignancy....I don't remember if he told me if he biopsied it or not...he did put metal clip in it and mark it with the blue tat dye. It will be removed when the malignancy is removed! along with my hystero.
County is my miracle..she will be here next week for my surgery and will stay with me awhile post op...she is amazing!!!! I am forever indebted to her!!! My bestest buddy!!
SIDENOTE: I would really prefer any future TATTOOS to be externally... but hey where else can one get their colon tatted like this....lol
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{{{{Clay}}}}} I agree on the internal tats!!

I called my doctor yesterday to get the results from my colonoscopy and the receptionist asked that I come in tomorrow so she can go over the results with me in person. <gulp> Actually, I am not worried a bit. Everything they have found thus far has been caught at such an early stage that the prognosis has been really super positive. I am very thankful for modern medicine and technology and my wonderful support system that includes you lovely people. <3
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(((((((((CATALINA))))))))))...that is superb attitude to have!!! No matter what..it IS caught early...just stay focused on that!!! A great prognosis is in store for you...AND a healthy outlook is 90% of one's recovery success!
I couldn't agree more with you on the awesome love & support we have here! I heart the peeps here!! ALL of them..and their kind words, generosity towards me, and love has helped me to FIGHT harder!! We are all in this together!!!
So did you get one of those lovely blue tats, too...lol...at least they are exclusive...lol
Big hugs...I will be with you in spirit tomorrow...good luck Ms. Catalina Rose...Clay
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Hi, Clay. Just a reminder that my illness was colon cancer and I had a colon resection via the traditional, open method. I actually had to have a second resection because I an obstruction a couple of weeks later. SO, since I did it twice, I know quite a bit about the recovery if you need some info. at any point along the way.

Feel free to PM me. Hang in there. Glad to see your enthusiam at kicking this in the butt!
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THanks buddy! I appreciate the words...and wow..twice....oh my goodness. I have a very best friend who will be with me, and I am certain she won't let me get obstructed!!! I would like to ask you some questions though..so will PM you after a while..and thanks, my friend! Yes, I WILL kick this C..right in the ass....Debby said it best...she said she "made cancer her bitch"....smiles...go Debby!!!
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I am done with radiation. No double mastectomy (insurance won't pay for it, unless I have the genetics test and they won't pay for the $3500 test, UGH). So, I get things evened up about the end of January. I will have smaller, perky breasts!! yeehaw!!! I have hair coming in, a bit darker and hoping for the curls I keep hearing about.

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Tommi! Tommi! Tommi!!!! What am I to do with you, dude! LMAO.
I will most definitely NOT lift more than a loaf of bread! I have already had major abd. surg. March 2010...so I know all about the "no lifting" and " no sex" rules! Damnnnn...as far as a "maid" and a "cook"...I have even better...I have whom is my very best friend...coming to see to all of those things. So not only is she my best friend, she is beautiful, witty, and so gentle & kind....I have it the absolute best!!!! Best part of all...my dachshund, heidi will not have to go in a shelter....that was my biggest fear....her being left alone someplace...wink ....Clay

P to the S....hellls yes my colon will be squeaky clean..no one can say I am full of BS!...lol I will have a TWO DA prep this time..Mag. Citrate Sunday and the FULL gallon of GoLytlely Monday along with gallons and gallons of water plus a Dulcolax tablet!
ReRuns eh? Well all I can say is my ass will be used to everyone seeing by then..so have at it...ya brat...lmao



[COLOR="blue"]JEANO: Thanks so much for your encouragement & support!!!![ I so appreciate you...hugs...Clay/COLOR]
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THanks buddy! I appreciate the words...and wow..twice....oh my goodness. I have a very best friend who will be with me, and I am certain she won't let me get obstructed!!! I would like to ask you some questions though..so will PM you after a while..and thanks, my friend! Yes, I WILL kick this C..right in the ass....Debby said it best...she said she "made cancer her bitch"....smiles...go Debby!!!
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THanks buddy! I appreciate the words...and wow..twice....oh my goodness. I have a very best friend who will be with me, and I am certain she won't let me get obstructed!!! I would like to ask you some questions though..so will PM you after a while..and thanks, my friend! Yes, I WILL kick this C..right in the ass....Debby said it best...she said she "made cancer her bitch"....smiles...go Debby!!!
Unfortunately, adhesions is not something you can control. It is just about how the body heals on the inside (the obstruction was due to an adhesion).

It is unusual, however, to happen so soon after surgery. Usually if that happens to a person it happens a year later.

It is just a luck of the draw kind of thing.
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