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Old 11-07-2011, 06:51 PM   #1
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..I just would wish for someone to hold my hand, tel me I am going to be okay, to care about me..and to be by my side...
You ARE going to be okay, WE care about you, and WE are on your side! Oh, and we will send Debby over to hold your hand!

Number one order of business....report back to us on the 11th. Not the 12th, the 11th!

I hope you have someone who can go with you on the 11th. Two sets of ears are better than one. Write your questions down before you go, even if you don't think that you could possibly forget any of your questions. Take notes.

And also....sorry about the prep you are going through tonight!
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Old 11-07-2011, 08:17 PM   #2
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oHhhhh Dapper...I almost fell off my chair laughing at the animated crapper...thanks, my friend...Clay
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You ARE going to be okay, WE care about you, and WE are on your side! Oh, and we will send Debby over to hold your hand!

Number one order of business....report back to us on the 11th. Not the 12th, the 11th!

I hope you have someone who can go with you on the 11th. Two sets of ears are better than one. Write your questions down before you go, even if you don't think that you could possibly forget any of your questions. Take notes.

And also....sorry about the prep you are going through tonight!
(hoping to make you smile)
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I still need to fill my Rx for the colon blow.

SOOOO not looking forward to yet ANOTHER bowl-prep. And from what I hear, this one is the MOST fun!! weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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hey C.R. I will share my exploding crapper with ya...after I clean it up a bit...it is nice!!!
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SOOOO not looking forward to yet ANOTHER bowl-prep. And from what I hear, this one is the MOST fun!! weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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the Davinci (sp?) is amazing!! From what I have read it is the best at minimizing any spillage when it comes to uterine cancer. Your story is beautiful, Clay. I'd wear that bandana with pride!!
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hey C.R. I will share my exploding crapper with ya...after I clean it up a bit...it is nice!!!
She is a lady you dufus, she is not going to be using any "crapper"!
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She is a lady you dufus, she is not going to be using any "crapper"!
hmm...a "crapper" is a toilet, to me..and here everyone uses them...regardless of gender..so what is a crapper then...lol
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hmm...a "crapper" is a toilet, to me..and here everyone uses them...regardless of gender..so what is a crapper then...lol
Oh, it was just a joke. Maybe it is a regional thing. Around here it would be a harsh statement. Unusual to say. I was just teasing. I am trying to equate it to something so you get what I am saying. It is similar to saying something like, "I am going to go take a piss" to explain to a group that you are going to the restroom. Does that make sense?

I hope things go well today.
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[COLOR="Blue"]First, let me say I knew I would have an army of comrades in here..and I knew I would be enveloped, held, loved, and cherished..I am not alone in here....for that I am thankful!! I am blessed..beyond measure...I think this is one of the most supportive, the most caring, and the tightest knit group of all..for the battle scars are worn with pride...and we carry one another...we hol done another..for we are mirrors of one another!!! Now, before I begin to cry again...let me finish.
I lost my wife almost 3 years ago..to Stage IV Breast Cancer..with mets to Liver/Lung/Bone/Brain/Skull/Kidney...that was her initial diagnosis[..we were told to make final arrangements and if there was a trip she wanted to go on, to go now.....she had to get 40 rad tx. right off the bat before she could even hope to get chemo....10 to hip, 10 to shoulder, 10 to cervical spine and 10 to thoracic spine.. She was one of first people on Tykerb after that...anyway she gave a helluva fight for 26 months. Liver failure...BUT she was able to die at home, in my arms, and was what she wanted...she asked only that I NOT say she "lost her battle to cancer" but to say she "passed her torch on..and I did! We had 15 wonderful years together...not nearly enough BUT I was blessed with those. Our relationship was wholly loving, healthy, positive, and one in which I would hope to have again. It was so good..and I miss her..so damn much. I know she would be here with me.and her spirit will be..and many others..and all of you here as well...thanks..
My oncologist will be doing a total hysto (uterus, tubes, ovaries, and lymph nodes, along with my appendix) and do follow up with radiation prophylactically! She is hoping to use the Da Vinci robotic arm and do a vag. hyst...so I am hoping that she will be able to do so. I will be at Hollings Cancer Center..a division of MUSC...
So, thanks each and every one of you Brave Warriors..I hope to be half as brave as each of you are....we need to have each of us a pink bandana embroidered....we had them made for my wife..and each of us wore them at the memorial service, had 45 motorcycles there..and released 30 pink balloons in her memory!
Ok folks, let's kick this Big C's ass.what say ye...I'm in...let's crusade on my family...I love you all...totally!! Debby..I will see you tomorrow. I am the one who is smiling....Clay/COLOR]
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I am a great hand holder. I am also really great at inappropriate jokes in times of stress. lol

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You take that rest....do what YOU feel is right for yourself..and know we are here for YOU as well..please feel free to PM me..anytime....I can understand tired..and needing a "break" just don't let go of the "fight" in you...know we are here...right beside you..with a hand up, a hnad out (stretched), or a hug...it is yours..for asking...I walk in the light and journey...right along side you...as do the rest of us...hugs...Clay Glo Worm
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I am so sorry for everyone who is experiencing loss and cancer diagnosis right now. I wish there was a way I could help everyone
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I did finally hear from my mother. I also still have the feeling that she's not being honest.

She's stalling on coming to Florida now...making excuses about appointments and things that can either be done here (for her) or taken care of at her house by friends.

Either she's worse and doesn't want to say anything.

Or she's feeling quite a bit better and I am once again disposable.

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