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01-06-2012, 01:14 PM
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I agree with Anya communicate is extremely essential in any relationship...and I prefer one when both initiate...I adore the look on Hys/Her face that little gleam in their eye when they know you want them..give me that same sexy/desired/wanted tingle when I see them making the advances that they need me NOW..lol...and if you and your lover know one another well enough, sometimes all it takes is a glance and a smirk and you both know. I remember one time with an ex..I was vaccuming..and all of sudden it stopped..I turned to look at the socket to see if it was still plugged in and there Hy stood..nekky..with the cord in Hys hand twirling it with that look in Hys eyes and that smirk lmao.
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01-06-2012, 01:18 PM
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Its not who INITIATES the sex...its who suggests we break for air, food, and H2O...! Usually Hym....., but one has to refuel I guess .....I'll be over here patiently awaiting round #....
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01-06-2012, 02:51 PM
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Sometimes life gets busy
Sometimes you have to hit me with a 2x4 Sometimes I can't read minds Sometimes a look is all it takes Oh and in answer to the OP, either or is fine with me Like a few other posters, communication is key
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01-06-2012, 03:14 PM
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01-06-2012, 03:40 PM
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initiate
This is an interesting topic. I am a femme and have been with women for over 12 years and never thought about this. I love to initiate. And --- I never really thought about it, but I have often refused sex and never realized that it might be hurting my partners feelings. Maybe that is part of why I no longer have a partner. eh.
good thing to think about!! 
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02-06-2012, 10:36 PM
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My first r/s was all about great communication and so we both freely initiated.
I'm sad, (embarrassed too) to say that I'm recently out of a r/s where I was always shut down, it really is tough on your self-esteem  I shoulda known the first time she wiped my lipstick off her mouth that I was in the wrong r/s, live and learn, eh? Oh, did I say I have a healthy sex drive and am totally open to either person and unless i had a fever of umm 106, id never turn you down, LOL |
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02-06-2012, 11:28 PM
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I'm femme and I am for either one initiating. It feels good to know that you're desired and wanted and I like making my butch (when I have one) feel this way too. And yeah, like a few other femmes posting here, I'm highly sexed and very rarely turn down a chance for some hot, steamy, headboard grabbin, leaving nail tracks on hys back kinda lovin' when in a relationship.
 hmm...that last tidbit was prolly a lil TMI, no? .gif "Say What?")
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02-07-2012, 06:50 AM
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I'm a light butch and it is equal opportunity in our bedroom. We are both in our 50's now an frankly when the sparks are flying I'm not about to douse them out with a no. :-)
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11-21-2016, 07:57 PM
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I'm a ftm and like to initiate sex but its ok for a partner when in a relationship to also initiate it at times too...
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02-07-2012, 12:02 AM
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02-07-2012, 12:07 AM
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