OFOS Butches & Femmes

[Firedance]

Originally Posted by OS Butch

Actions speak louder than words. For me, I watch to see what the reaction is to my actions. Getting to a door before me is a little hint

I have just about stopped using OFOS because it seems so misunderstood almost as if it is a bad thing...I dunno. So, there might be Femmes out there that don't id as OFOS, just as there are a number of Butchly sorts that don't like the term OFOS.

I almost had a little heart attack there! So, to clarify, have you almost stopped using the term, "OFOS", or have you almost stopped using the manners that OFOS refers to?

... Please, please tell me it's the first, and not the second option!