New sex partner=new toys? Your opinion

[meridiantoo]

Originally Posted by Martina

I can't IMAGINE buying new. There are things you use for only one person because of body fluid contact and the inability to clean them. Some canes, for example. But otherwise, no.

New bed? Seriously??

If the memory of your ex is that present and potentially contaminating, I do not think new equipment is going to solve the problem. More of a therapy issue.

It's just about compartmentalizing and boundaries for me...