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04-05-2010, 11:56 AM
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Fierce Femmes, Allies and Gender Expectations...
I have been thinking about starting this tread for weeks, and I keep putting it off for lack of a catchy name.....
 I in no way am trying to take anything away or diss Traditional Femme and Butch/FtM roles.... However, I would like to hear from Femmes who ID differently. Alpha Femmes, Femme Daddy's, Femmes who feel like dudes, Femmes who wish they were men, Femme Tops...ALL Femmes who have ever thought "Hey, how come all we discuss is Butch and FtM gender?", "I don't exactly fit the stereotypes people seem to be having about what Femme is?" or even "I do fit every single stereotype, but wants to discuss anyway"... Femme/Butch does not = Girl/Boy Femme does not = submissive Femme does not = bottom So many expectations of what Femme is supposed to be. What have you faced? Thoughts on any of this? Everyone is welcome!!!
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04-05-2010, 12:03 PM
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I, for example, have way more in common with a 16 year old guy, than I do Betty Crocker!
I am not even sure what a feeling is. I am very un-romantic. I fall alsleep after sex. I strap on. I like to "run the show", as it were. I like to be called Daddy etc....
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04-05-2010, 12:05 PM
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One thing I have learned to despise over the years is...
"No I don't want a baby girl type femme" in the same breath "Could you be just a lil more girly or femme?" makes me want to punt a juice box off their fucking neck... Folks are uncomfy or to insecure to be with a femme like myself, I don't submit, nor am I a Hallmark moment... So my femme surely does not fit that pretty lil pink demure box most people are comfy with...
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04-05-2010, 12:10 PM
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My response.. "I got your *real femme* right here as I grab my big fat femme cock.. Just sayin
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"If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden |
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04-05-2010, 12:22 PM
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Bless you for putting up with me, Boot.
I am femme
I am a bottom I am submissive I am passive I take it Except When I'm not I am butch I'm a Top I'm the instigator I'm Miss I give it I don't cook and I don't bake I don't like to fold and I'm happy to keep all my clothes in two piles: dirty, and clean. I feel far more powerful walking down a street wearing Tims than I do in Steve Maddens Who's your Daddy, now?
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04-05-2010, 12:24 PM
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When I first joined a B/F site someone asked me why I did not go with a softer name like Snugglybunnyfemme...well first off, I am not a snuggler...I am llergic to rabbits (adorable as they are)...and well, I just don't feel like anyone's baby anything.
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04-05-2010, 12:26 PM
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The Hallmark isle gives me hives. Sometimes all Cynthia will ask for for a holiday is a sweet card I have actually read.....eeeeeeekkkkk....I almost hyperventilate every time. My cock is blue and opalescent and named Blue Thunder!
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04-05-2010, 12:28 PM
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Oh yeahhhh! I do the laundry, but only beacsue I am picky about it. I don't cook, Cynthia is picky about that. I bring home the bacon and hand it over! Woof!
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04-05-2010, 12:29 PM
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My favorite thing is and always will be the horror and offense people take to the ever so deviant FEMME COCK  heh
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04-05-2010, 12:29 PM
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 Though some seem to like it. Muahahahaha.
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04-05-2010, 12:31 PM
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BOINK. Did somebody say Femme Cock?
I love it (unless it has glitterj). 
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04-05-2010, 12:32 PM
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But the opalescence is fine, right??? 
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04-05-2010, 12:34 PM
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 Opal IS my birthstone.
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04-05-2010, 12:34 PM
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I do not always behave or even sit like a lady....
Do you? Baby and wedding showers? Can't do it. and you better remind me when your birthday is if you expect me to remember.
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04-05-2010, 12:35 PM
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Perfect! 
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04-05-2010, 12:35 PM
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This was my sig for the longest time. . . Courtesy of Christina Aguilera
When I strap on my boots
And I slip on my suit You see the vixen in me Becomes an angel for you. Some days I'm a super bitch Up to my old tricks But it won't last forever. Next day I'm your super girl Out to save the world And it keeps getting better.
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04-05-2010, 12:39 PM
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I love it!
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04-05-2010, 12:40 PM
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04-05-2010, 12:47 PM
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MILLION $$$ PUSSY
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I hate baby showers, bridal showers, any kind of having to decorate kind of event...
I want nothing to do with it, I will show, bring a gift but I just don't have that gene in me. I get bored.
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"If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden |
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04-05-2010, 12:52 PM
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Femmes are not just one thing, We can be so many things.
We can fix cars, we can use power tools, we are strong, we are proud. I refuse to be told I can't know about cars, or pump my own gas, or drive because I am Femme.  I hate the mere suggestion that I have to be submissive about anything... EVER. I hate the suggestion that a Butch is soft or somehow less Butch if they like Femmes like Me. I don't need to be saved.
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