Instant Turn-Ons

[Vivacious1]

sexy arms and a great sense of humor

[Vivacious1]

self confidence

[weatherboi]

getting cruised from across the room!

[cinnamongrrl]

strong shoulders and backs are my weakness.....always have been....

[Girl_On_Fire]

Originally Posted by Huge-Smile

crows feet (smile lines; I love how the face can tell the story of someone's life and experience)

gray, slightly-graying, and/or salt and pepper hair (sometimes - depends on the individual, of course; but when it works, it's hot)

voices (especially those with a low or raspy timbre to them)

accents (especially southern drawls, which is a relatively new phenomenon for me; I wasn't ever really a fan until I heard one a while ago that changed my mind about that, lol)

Yowza! I second all of these!

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by Huge-Smile

crows feet (smile lines; I love how the face can tell the story of someone's life and experience)

gray, slightly-graying, and/or salt and pepper hair (sometimes - depends on the individual, of course; but when it works, it's hot)

voices (especially those with a low or raspy timbre to them)

accents (especially southern drawls, which is a relatively new phenomenon for me; I wasn't ever really a fan until I heard one a while ago that changed my mind about that, lol)

I don't know how instant the first two are for me...they would at least perk my interest I know....but the second two. Oh yeah.

[cinnamongrrl]

Ohhh non physical ones...lol my bad...

Intelligence, a way with words (not always a hand in hand thing) and yes...confidence....swagger if you will....

These are a few of my favorite thingsssssss

My client was bed bound for a duration and watched a LOT of The Sound of Music.....

[Cin]

I love accents as well. Certain South and Central American accents are my favorites. I feel them on a visceral level. And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful. Then there are things that a person I am attracted to can do to turn me on. My wife doing or saying something that I find particularly hot (which happens often really) works instantly but I doubt it would have the same effect if anyone else were doing/saying it. I guess she has the keys to the instant turn-on switch.

[DaddyNik12]

there are certain fragrances that Victoria secret has that for some reason flip a switch , I have a very hard time containing myself

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl

Ohhh non physical ones...lol my bad...

Intelligence, a way with words (not always a hand in hand thing) and yes...confidence....swagger if you will....

These are a few of my favorite thingsssssss

My client was bed bound for a duration and watched a LOT of The Sound of Music.....

Who said it had to be non-physical.

<----likes the physical a whole lot

[cinnamongrrl]

Originally Posted by Gemme

Who said it had to be non-physical.

<----likes the physical a whole lot

I just felt shallow only stating THOSE....since it really is all about the mind for me....

[Slowpurr]

I interpreted an instant turn on to be a fleeting, fun moment. If we are speaking of a more physical outcome then a turn on with one person does not translate into a turn on with another. I agree with that. I also cannot tie one thing into an instant turn on other then a general physical and mental butchness which has to be accompanied by the attractiveness, as interpreted by me, of that person as a whole.

I can remember mentioning to people who would comment on my crooked teeth that it my unique characteristic and is a part of what makes me me. I expect it was your positive reinforcement that allowed me to believe it.

Originally Posted by Miss Tick

And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful.

[SleepyButch]

Her touching herself or even the thought of her touching herself!

Laughing at my jokes

Having the patience of saint

[Cin]

Originally Posted by Slowpurr

I interpreted an instant turn on to be a fleeting, fun moment.

I'm sure that is what it is supposed to be. I don't know if you know this about me, but I tend to over-analyze stuff. I turn it over and over looking at it from every angle possible, then I might dunk it in a pail of water to see how it handles being wet. Then I squeeze it making sure to wring out every bit of spontaneity and joy. I examine and then re-examine. I even bore myself.

[Tony]

Instant to me is visual, audio, physical.
The click of high heels on the floor.
Blonde hair.
Beautiful & manicured hands.
Manicured nails on my skin.
Said hands in my hair.
A soft whisper.
A soft Southern accent.
That look...in her eyes & in her appearance.
Damn, I got more but I think I beat stop here.
Lol

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl

I just felt shallow only stating THOSE....since it really is all about the mind for me....

I'm shallow and I'm okay with that, because if I don't feel that shimmery feeling that says 'take me', none of the rest of it matters. Sometimes that feeling finds its way to me through my brain and sometimes through my groin. I don't care how it gets to me as long as it's there.

[Tommi]

that one spaghetti strap slipping off the shoulder shimmy look

[Ts_kaijira]

Originally Posted by Tommi

That come and get me smile

Her butt as she sways and bends makes me want to grab her

That feminine curve of the fingers as she sits and plays

Putting her hands together and raising them above her head .

Long wavy hair I can wrap my hand in

Dripping Wet, out of the shower , everytime

Intelligent, savy, sexy, sensual..


lucky me

This is how you see me? Wow. I love you forever. Your kaijira

[Ts_kaijira]

Originally Posted by Tommi

that one spaghetti strap slipping off the shoulder shimmy look

Oh, I do know that gets you Love. Big Hug. j