Instant Turn-Ons

[Slowpurr]

I interpreted an instant turn on to be a fleeting, fun moment. If we are speaking of a more physical outcome then a turn on with one person does not translate into a turn on with another. I agree with that. I also cannot tie one thing into an instant turn on other then a general physical and mental butchness which has to be accompanied by the attractiveness, as interpreted by me, of that person as a whole.

I can remember mentioning to people who would comment on my crooked teeth that it my unique characteristic and is a part of what makes me me. I expect it was your positive reinforcement that allowed me to believe it.

Originally Posted by Miss Tick

And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful.