Your Ideal Relationship Format

imperfect_cupcake · 10-03-2014, 02:51 PM

I think it depends on what you mean by "best friend" so perhaps that term is problematic.
There are things I talk about with my best friend that I would not in *any* way shape or form appreciate from my partner, ever. I talk about people who I'd like to fuck with my best mate and she tells me.
I don't wanna hear that from my partner. That is for a certain kind of jocularity I don't want to hear. That's for her best blokey mates, not me.
I don't mind that she finds other people attractive, it's healthy. I don't mind she notices or even occationally has a side dish of fun.
I don't want to hear the details of what she wants to do with other girls in her head.
I don't want her pointing out girls to me in a bar.
I don't want to hear comments about girls tits when she's watching tv.
She can share those things with her best blokey mates.

I also don't want to spend 24/7 with her.

I attribute those things to people's best mates.
So I think everyone's dictionary or terms are goin to be different.

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10-03-2014, 02:51 PM	#17
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I think it depends on what you mean by "best friend" so perhaps that term is problematic. There are things I talk about with my best friend that I would not in any way shape or form appreciate from my partner, ever. I talk about people who I'd like to fuck with my best mate and she tells me. I don't wanna hear that from my partner. That is for a certain kind of jocularity I don't want to hear. That's for her best blokey mates, not me. I don't mind that she finds other people attractive, it's healthy. I don't mind she notices or even occationally has a side dish of fun. I don't want to hear the details of what she wants to do with other girls in her head. I don't want her pointing out girls to me in a bar. I don't want to hear comments about girls tits when she's watching tv. She can share those things with her best blokey mates. I also don't want to spend 24/7 with her. I attribute those things to people's best mates. So I think everyone's dictionary or terms are goin to be different.