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10-01-2012, 12:44 PM
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Afternoon everyone! Another rainy day here in NC Pride was nearly washed out this weekend but it seemed everyone had a great time!
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10-01-2012, 01:12 PM
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Hey y'all...I would like to hang out in here with you if I may. I live in South Dakota and turned 50 last year. I'm a photographer now, after a first career as a car detailer.
I look forward to getting to know some of you a little...
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10-01-2012, 02:26 PM
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 What kind of photography do you do? Are you able to make a living out of it?
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10-01-2012, 05:18 PM
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10-01-2012, 07:22 PM
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welcome to the loft how many yrs have we known each other???? Ha.. ladies ... Mr nobody is a tall handsome thing 
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10-01-2012, 07:59 PM
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hi all, I'm 45 and would like to join you all. I'm new here and keep wanting to go through all the threads but there's so much… (and it's taking me a while to find the send button)
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10-01-2012, 08:05 PM
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and welcome,I'm new myself just joined about a week ago..Met some nice people and hoping to keep meetign new friends. Little Feather |
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10-01-2012, 08:28 PM
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Welcome to the loft Fox ..
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10-01-2012, 09:23 PM
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Apparently, this woman doesn't share your opinion. I am ok, I guess, but the fact that my mother shares my home (mind you she is independent, healthy, is not here 2x's a week, very accepting of me and my friends/gf etc) and that I have a dog... well, that put the brakes on it. Wow... really? Oh well, such is my love life recently.... on top of that, my dog has been ill the last 24 hours. Was trying to figure it out... finally I realized my mother had given her a steak bone from her dinner last night. Bella has a very sensitive tummy and cannot eat but very spacific things. So here I am, up late, washing her bedding, cooking rice and will have to get up early to cook her chicken (had to get it out of the freezer and is just starting to thaw) so she can have it for breakfast. She is still throwing up. I am exhausted! Only had Sunday afternoon off from working and will work straight through to the weekend. 2 jobs on tues and thursday. urrrrggggg  Can somebody please help me find my happy place!!! |
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10-01-2012, 09:29 PM
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10-01-2012, 09:29 PM
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evening all you beautiful lofters! Welcome to the newbies! Great to see new folks on this thread.
I read posts often, don't post much here! Enjoy seeing how everyone is doing! Hugs Ruthie...it WILL get better....hang in there my friend!! Enjoy your evening everyone...Clay
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10-02-2012, 07:13 AM
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Wow! Lots of action in here, yaaaaay!
 Ruthie, hang tight!!! I share your struggles!! I'd love to be able to connect with other women, there just isn't a place like that in my community and everyone I know is partnered, sigh.... It's rainy and nasty out this morning and since I'm still in recovery mode I think I'll nap then head off to the gym for a little light rehab. Hope everyone here (Welcome New Lofters!!) has had a great start to their week!! 
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10-02-2012, 07:44 AM
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hiya everyone ! I would love to join this Awesome group of people. I am 42, a mother of three( son is 25, then two daughters 23,and an almost 16 yr old) and a grandmother of a nine month old grandson. I feel older than I am sometimes, especially admitting that i have a 25 yr old, but then I have to remind myself i had him two weeks before I turned 17.
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10-02-2012, 09:29 AM
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10-02-2012, 09:42 AM
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10-02-2012, 09:44 AM
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Jumping in...
Hi Everyone,
I'd like to be part of this group as well... I'm 49 and am having a great time and a hard time with myself right now...lol I'm in transition, I moved last year, downsizing since I'm now an empty-nester (but that's getting easier)...I'm in a healing place right now, as far as my heart is concerned and I'm really needing/looking for a safe/comfortable place in our community, if you will. This feels like that place. So, I hope it's okay if I stay awhile...?
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10-02-2012, 09:55 AM
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That's screwed up. Family comes first in my book. In fact I had this conversation with my hairdresser about dating and family. My family accepts anyone I date and some of my ex's stay in contact with me and them. Family is very important to me and truth is I'd rather be with family when i have time off work. So if my partner can't dial into this whole family thing then we won't be moving into the future. I also prefer to be with someone who has strong family ties but also know that some families are not as accepting as mine. I'm sorry to hear about Bella. hugs she will be fine. Ruthie I know how you feel, really I do. I've been a lone and single for a while now. I just refuse to settle. I prefer meeting everyone as friends and I'm slow going. Focus on your friendships and building deep wonderful bonds. Woman's space is just so nice sometimes. Make time for it. I'd love to meet up with you for something. You're not that far. Maybe a nice half way point some of us could meet up and enjoy the fall colors. Be good to yourself. You're an amazing person. |
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10-02-2012, 10:13 AM
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go away! you can't hang out here boo! lol kidding. hy is a great photographer and took some pics here at the farm. |
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10-02-2012, 11:50 AM
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Afternooners loft dwellers and peekers
wow all the new faces...... welcome to the loft. Ruth... hope ur feeling better... I understand lonely... I get that way to sometimes .. just gotta keep busy.. get involved in your local gay community .. never kno ... right?
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10-02-2012, 04:17 PM
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Picking a load up here in the morning in ol new Orleans, and taking movie stuff to Manhattan.. yikes ... but dont have to b there until Monday morning... have to figure my route and what.kinda trouble I can get into along the way ......
Gawd i hate doing this from my phone al the time 
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