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			I have more than just one ID, I have more than just a sexual or gender ID. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
			What IDs make you feel a sense of connection with others? Give you a sense of self? Mine, and in no particular order: Feminist -third wave Femme/Dolly Dyke -an internal identity. I don't feel I have much in common with other femmes just on the basis of having the same gender as them Queer-dyke -in North America. I still call myself a lesbian in the UK Sub (fiesty) Daughter Socialist Southwest coast BC'er -because of the dirt. I feel connect to this dirt, these trees, these mountains. NOT canadian. I am not a patriot. I don't feel I have much in common with someone just because they come from Edmonton in the next province over Cousin-friend - my friends that I love like family I feel a family like responsibility too and they are part of my identity Ex-sexworker/sex advocate -big part of who I am, I feel pride about this like people do about being gay and have shame shoved at them for being gay. So I'm out and proud about it. Writer Smart arse. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 01-04-2015 at 06:08 PM.  | 
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			Christian-the core of me and how i live my life. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Queer femme-my self-given id, which does not change no matter whom i partner with. Wife-i claim wife whether married to a man or woman. Mother-i have learned so much about life and pure love from having my child. Friend-i have a few close friends, and i would die for any of them. Social Activist-love me my causes. Conspiracy theorist-you got a minute? Lol Daughter of my mother-she taught me good from bad, right from wrong, and how to move through the world confident and strong.  | 
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			Oh gosh, yes. I knew one was missing:  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I kind of get the gist of this thread so I guess I will put my personal Identities on here. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Artist Motorcyclist New Yorker Lesbian Femininst Lesbian-feminist, (A subgenre of general feminism that is it's own identity) Stonefemme Submissive masochist Pagan/Wiccan Lefty Liberal Sister/Friend 
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			Feminist-I believe in equality for everyone.Lipstick feminism..rock on. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Soft Butch- Soft spoken and sweet,so I'm told. Stone- If I don't enjoy it,well,I have to enjoy it. Top/Dominant- Non submissive. Wife- I see myself as a woman and personally like the idea of being someone's wife. Aunt..or Aunt T- The best part is that they don't come home with us. Spiritual- I do believe in God.If others don't then that's their belief. Caregiver- Always ready. Adventurous Risk Taker- How would you know if you didn't take chances? Cat Person- Yep Californian- Born in the valley and raised in the mountains. Seller/Vendor- Brings home the bacon,baby. Weirdo- Hell yeah!..and you can throw in morbid.  | 
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			Spiritual- I have a strong Buddhism interest, and am of Jewish background. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Femme- It's the way I've always been. Intelligent- The IQ tests put me up there. Creative- Yep I am. Bottom/submissive- It's natural to me. Intuitive- I'm always listening to that inner voice. Adventurous risk taker- You'll never know if you don't take that risk. International love- I feel at home in two countries half the world away. Silver spoon club member- dad was in music industry, I met many artists with their bodyguards and chauffeurs at my house. Deborah  | 
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