How have you met the people you've been involved with romantically or sexually? - Page 5

JDeere · 06-09-2015, 10:31 PM

I have mainly met them from online. Mostly dating sites.

Sweet Bliss · 07-17-2015, 09:28 PM

online, in person..... still single, lmao...

AnAwkwardAccident · 08-03-2015, 04:27 PM

I think everyone I've been involved with I've met online through various websites, dating websites, etc. ....*sigh*

JRM · 08-03-2015, 04:47 PM

2 of them by just standing there minding my own business .. Must of had a post it stuck on me that said talk to me .. 1 online

Karysma · 08-03-2015, 06:47 PM

Chat room... where the most disturbed individuals live. I like a challenge! LOL!

TruTexan · 08-22-2015, 04:48 PM

Just bumping for some folks to read.

JDeere · 01-09-2020, 05:15 PM

On old yahoo chat, another bf website, pof and this one I met in a Facebook group.

Stone-Butch · 01-09-2020, 05:28 PM

mostly through other friends.

CherylNYC · 01-09-2020, 10:25 PM

The really important relationships?

At school.
She was a student in my Pagan/Wiccan study group.
At NYC Pride.
She was drumming at a Goddess party my ex threw.
She came to an LSM meeting.

I've met a few whackdoodles online and will not be trying that again. EVER. I also met my last gf when she showed up at an LSM meeting, but that wasn't a particularly important relationship.

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-10-2020, 09:52 AM

- Through an ex-boyfriend in high school. He told me, "I know this girl who's a lesbian, and she doesn't care who knows!" He introduced me to her, and that was all she wrote. I was head over heels. It was a short relationship, but an important one.

- In college through friends. It lasted about a year and a half, but then we moved to different cities after school.

- After moving to Atlanta, in the local womyn's chorus I met a woman who had an incredibly similar background to mine. I mean, she grew up on a farm and knew how to can vegetables. We would sit on the porch and shell peas together, and then put them up. She raises chickens now. (I got out just in time - I moved to Atlanta specifically because I was tired of living on a farm.)

- My hairdresser introduced me to one very important person. My relationship with her lasted for 7 years. I was a member of her extended family - until I wasn't. Never want to do that again.

- The latest I met online, and we've been together for 14 years. It started out as a hookup, and I really didn't think it would last more than three weeks. Just goes to show, you never know.

homoe · 01-10-2020, 10:03 AM

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This is one of my favorite threads to read. I am always fascinated and love hearing how people have met. I’ve only had one what I would call a serious relationship. We met at work, and we ending up being together for 14 years.

I now have a dear friend and what I would call a traveling companion. We met at the hotel I stay at when I'm in Chicago.

homoe · 01-10-2020, 03:23 PM

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I now have a dear friend and what I would call a traveling companion. We met at the hotel I stay at when I'm in Chicago.

Maybe I should clarify she's a part time employee there....

homoe · 01-11-2020, 08:06 AM

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Maybe I should clarify she's a part time employee there....

At the front desk.......

Chad · 01-11-2020, 10:58 AM

I agree with CherylNYC, the most important relationships were met through friends.

Seems more like hookups on-line.

kittygrrl · 01-11-2020, 11:57 AM

i've met girlfriends in just about every kind of venue, through friends, in bars, blind dates, group dates, by chance and yes online...online has actually been my favorite..i like to really know the thoughts & feelings w/o a facade which usually accompanies face to face encounters and it's usually a great deal quicker...as for hook-ups.. those happen everywhere..it depends what your motive is, in the first place

Tuff Stuff · 01-12-2020, 02:53 PM

No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself.

Love all my buddies, really I do.

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-12-2020, 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Tuff Stuff

No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself.

Love all my buddies, really I do.

Ohhhhh! Is that what we used to call a trick?

Chad · 01-12-2020, 07:04 PM

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Ohhhhh! Is that what we used to call a trick?

Oh Ma'am, thank you. I thought that I was the only one that remembered "trick" with the over night bag in my car trunk.

homoe · 01-12-2020, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by GeorgiaMa'am

Ohhhhh! Is that what we used to call a trick?

Being from the Midwest I NEVER heard 'trick' in regards to a woman!

It was simply called a one night stand, regardless if a suitcase was involved or not..

JDeere · 05-04-2020, 06:44 PM

A trick is a whole nother term to some of us, depending on where you're from!

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Tricks

06-09-2015, 10:31 PM	#81
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08-03-2015, 06:47 PM	#85
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08-22-2015, 04:48 PM	#86
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01-09-2020, 05:28 PM	#88
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01-09-2020, 10:25 PM	#89
CherylNYC Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: I'm a woman. Behave accordingly. Relationship Status: Single, not looking. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NYC Posts: 1,467 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,474 Thanked 7,116 Times in 1,205 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	The really important relationships? At school. She was a student in my Pagan/Wiccan study group. At NYC Pride. She was drumming at a Goddess party my ex threw. She came to an LSM meeting. I've met a few whackdoodles online and will not be trying that again. EVER. I also met my last gf when she showed up at an LSM meeting, but that wasn't a particularly important relationship. __________________ Cheryl

07-17-2015, 09:28 PM	#82
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08-03-2015, 04:27 PM	#83
AnAwkwardAccident Member How Do You Identify?: Trans* Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: Where the wild things are Posts: 190 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 123 Thanked 537 Times in 152 Posts Rep Power: 0	I think everyone I've been involved with I've met online through various websites, dating websites, etc. ....sigh

08-03-2015, 04:47 PM	#84
JRM Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Not looking Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Ohio Posts: 116 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 40 Thanked 386 Times in 107 Posts Rep Power: 5899365	2 of them by just standing there minding my own business .. Must of had a post it stuck on me that said talk to me .. 1 online

01-09-2020, 05:15 PM	#87
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	On old yahoo chat, another bf website, pof and this one I met in a Facebook group.

01-10-2020, 09:52 AM	#90
GeorgiaMa'am Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am Relationship Status: widowed - involved, poly Join Date: May 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 6,418 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,473 Thanked 28,475 Times in 5,790 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	- Through an ex-boyfriend in high school. He told me, "I know this girl who's a lesbian, and she doesn't care who knows!" He introduced me to her, and that was all she wrote. I was head over heels. It was a short relationship, but an important one. - In college through friends. It lasted about a year and a half, but then we moved to different cities after school. - After moving to Atlanta, in the local womyn's chorus I met a woman who had an incredibly similar background to mine. I mean, she grew up on a farm and knew how to can vegetables. We would sit on the porch and shell peas together, and then put them up. She raises chickens now. (I got out just in time - I moved to Atlanta specifically because I was tired of living on a farm.) - My hairdresser introduced me to one very important person. My relationship with her lasted for 7 years. I was a member of her extended family - until I wasn't. Never want to do that again. - The latest I met online, and we've been together for 14 years. It started out as a hookup, and I really didn't think it would last more than three weeks. Just goes to show, you never know. __________________ -GeorgiaMa'am It's true that you are blessed and lucky It's true that you are touched by something that will grow and bloom in you. -10,000 Maniacs

01-11-2020, 10:58 AM	#94
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,316 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Relationships I agree with CherylNYC, the most important relationships were met through friends. Seems more like hookups on-line.

01-11-2020, 11:57 AM	#95
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,366 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,595 Thanked 21,952 Times in 7,076 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	i've met girlfriends in just about every kind of venue, through friends, in bars, blind dates, group dates, by chance and yes online...online has actually been my favorite..i like to really know the thoughts & feelings w/o a facade which usually accompanies face to face encounters and it's usually a great deal quicker...as for hook-ups.. those happen everywhere..it depends what your motive is, in the first place __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

01-12-2020, 02:53 PM	#96
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself. Love all my buddies, really I do.

05-04-2020, 06:44 PM	#100
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	A trick is a whole nother term to some of us, depending on where you're from! https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Tricks