Dating online - profiles and perusing

homoe · 08-23-2015, 04:15 PM

I think online is a great way to get to know someone but as for looking for partner material it leaves very much to be desired I dare say!

fever · 08-23-2015, 06:20 PM

I am feveralways on Plenty of Fish. I tried OKCupid, but all I ever met were femmes.lol I stay on POF to meet people who live in the same area and might want to do activities. I am not in the market for romance at this time.

imperfect_cupcake · 08-23-2015, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

I think online is a great way to get to know someone but as for looking for partner material it leaves very much to be desired I dare say!

True. That's why I meet people within 2/3 weeks of talking to them. I usually exchange a few messages, a couple emails, a couple of phone chats and then I meet for a coffee, not a date. After a few coffee/beer meets if I enjoy them and I think it has potential, then a date.

The partner prospect doesn't happen until I've hung out with them *non dating* at *least* a few times.

But, that's me.

Fever: POF has more butches yes. But I find the rare person I do meet on OKC I click with much better. I am very patient and I'm not in a rush to date anyone. My profile is just there, like leaving a door ajar. That's about the extent of it.
School takes up too much of my time to date. I have one evening a week to give someone and I can't talk every day and most lesbians find that annoying.

So... It's just there. It can't hurt.

imperfect_cupcake · 08-23-2015, 07:26 PM

And I certainly don't wish anyone who doesn't wish to use dating site to do it. That wasn't the purpose of this thread.
It's just here for those who want to put their profile name up to see if there is anyone local that might have otherwise missed them. Some people aren't good at talking about themselves. At least this way it would be known they were into butches/transguys or into femmes.

If you don't wanna use a dating site, don't. I'm just suprised not very many people here do, is all.

Not a worry.

MysticOceansFL · 08-23-2015, 07:27 PM

I personally don't go to online dating sites, I come to this one to enjoy the many different topics and people and if something more happens, who knows but I do think FB area also keeps people real and honest but still be careful of people not being who they pretend to be.

job · 08-26-2015, 08:44 AM

I think that my pof account is jobandisaiah3 and my okcupid is job3, but I may be wrong about both of those names.
I agree okcupid is a cool way to find out very quickly if you think you might be compatible with someone.
Plus, I found out about this site from someone I met on there.

Chad · 02-04-2017, 11:19 PM

The part that I don't like about dating sites is that they seem so judgmental. I see photos and a short profile. I would rather sit down and have a chat with a lady and get to know her.

To me people (femmes) are more beautiful from the inside. It is their personality, their humor, smiling with their eyes, their warmth, kindness, and their brain.

It is hard to get to know ladies on-line.

Just my thoughts.

Zimmeh · 02-04-2017, 11:56 PM

I also don't use a dating site. I met my ex on BFP and we were together for nearly three years. I'm an open book and if someone asks me, I will tell you about myself.

Zimmeh

JDeere · 02-23-2017, 09:27 PM

I don't think I will be dating for a long while. I'm not going to use a dating site, either.

pumpndude · 03-17-2017, 11:21 PM

I have to be attracted to the person on the outside, but extremely what they
have to offer on the inside....

pumpndude · 09-08-2017, 10:29 PM

Mine is at okcupid and plenty of fish....

Look for- nahunter, nahunter11 I guess I will have to go and search for myself and make sure .....

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08-26-2015, 08:44 AM	#6
job Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: Vegas area Posts: 47 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182 Thanked 159 Times in 35 Posts Rep Power: 644258	I think that my pof account is jobandisaiah3 and my okcupid is job3, but I may be wrong about both of those names. I agree okcupid is a cool way to find out very quickly if you think you might be compatible with someone. Plus, I found out about this site from someone I met on there. __________________ Compassion is an action word with no boundaries.-Prince

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Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,312 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Dating online The part that I don't like about dating sites is that they seem so judgmental. I see photos and a short profile. I would rather sit down and have a chat with a lady and get to know her. To me people (femmes) are more beautiful from the inside. It is their personality, their humor, smiling with their eyes, their warmth, kindness, and their brain. It is hard to get to know ladies on-line. Just my thoughts.

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08-23-2015, 04:15 PM	#1
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts Rep Power: 21474889	I think online is a great way to get to know someone but as for looking for partner material it leaves very much to be desired I dare say!

08-23-2015, 06:20 PM	#2
fever Member How Do You Identify?: stonefemme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near Vancouver, B.C. Canada Posts: 592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 1,279 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 17783436	I am feveralways on Plenty of Fish. I tried OKCupid, but all I ever met were femmes.lol I stay on POF to meet people who live in the same area and might want to do activities. I am not in the market for romance at this time.

08-23-2015, 07:26 PM	#4
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	And I certainly don't wish anyone who doesn't wish to use dating site to do it. That wasn't the purpose of this thread. It's just here for those who want to put their profile name up to see if there is anyone local that might have otherwise missed them. Some people aren't good at talking about themselves. At least this way it would be known they were into butches/transguys or into femmes. If you don't wanna use a dating site, don't. I'm just suprised not very many people here do, is all. Not a worry.

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pumpndude Member How Do You Identify?: Good Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: Sonora, CA Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3 Thanked 211 Times in 70 Posts Rep Power: 1503251	I'm right here Mine is at okcupid and plenty of fish.... Look for- nahunter, nahunter11 I guess I will have to go and search for myself and make sure ..... __________________ Everything Ending Is Also A Beginning We Just Don't Know It At The Time