What have you learned?

JDeere · 09-19-2015, 07:16 PM

To leave well enough alone but I don't always do that.

kittygrrl · 12-13-2015, 08:25 AM

if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its a duck

kittygrrl · 12-13-2015, 08:37 AM

wickedness will never lead to happiness........................................h ave I said this before? perhaps, but it bears repeating,

kittygrrl · 12-13-2015, 09:10 AM

character-constancy over time

Chad · 12-13-2015, 09:55 AM

I have learned that I should not have expectations of other people and I do mean all other people. I have lost too many relationships with friends, lovers, and family to my expectations.

Now I say what I need and if they can't handle it then they can move on.

RockOn · 12-13-2015, 10:04 AM

Learning I do not HAVE to work myself outside on the weekends so hard until I drop ... I actually took an hour nap last weekend plus did not work until 8 or 9 p.m. either day.

I am hopeful ... I did fairly well yesterday.
We'll see how it goes today.

I have come to realize I am too driven when it comes to getting things accomplished and I set the bar impossibly high.

Learning how to allow myself to relax some on the weekends, take a little break and sit down.

Getting there! (I think)

Bèsame* · 12-13-2015, 10:06 AM

What you say, is not always what is heard. Communication needs to work, before assumptions are made.

Greco · 12-13-2015, 10:31 AM

that going slowly in building friendship can lead to
delicious surprises built on solid ground.

Greco

09-19-2015, 07:16 PM	#1
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	To leave well enough alone but I don't always do that. __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

12-13-2015, 08:25 AM	#2
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,634 Thanked 22,019 Times in 7,121 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	learned.. if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its a duck __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

12-13-2015, 08:37 AM	#3
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,634 Thanked 22,019 Times in 7,121 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	also... wickedness will never lead to happiness........................................h ave I said this before? perhaps, but it bears repeating, __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

12-13-2015, 09:10 AM	#4
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,634 Thanked 22,019 Times in 7,121 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	learned.. character-constancy over time __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

12-13-2015, 09:55 AM	#5
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Learned I have learned that I should not have expectations of other people and I do mean all other people. I have lost too many relationships with friends, lovers, and family to my expectations. Now I say what I need and if they can't handle it then they can move on.

12-13-2015, 10:04 AM	#6
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Learning I do not HAVE to work myself outside on the weekends so hard until I drop ... I actually took an hour nap last weekend plus did not work until 8 or 9 p.m. either day. I am hopeful ... I did fairly well yesterday. We'll see how it goes today. I have come to realize I am too driven when it comes to getting things accomplished and I set the bar impossibly high. Learning how to allow myself to relax some on the weekends, take a little break and sit down. Getting there! (I think)

12-13-2015, 10:06 AM	#7
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,391 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,142 Thanked 40,957 Times in 10,741 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	What you say, is not always what is heard. Communication needs to work, before assumptions are made. __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

12-13-2015, 10:31 AM	#8
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,616 Times in 2,285 Posts Rep Power: 0	d that going slowly in building friendship can lead to delicious surprises built on solid ground. Greco