That first meet

[*Anya*]

Originally Posted by CherryWine

I am curious to know what everyone's thoughts are on the appropriate way to greet someone upon first meeting him/her. Let's say you've only exchanged a few messages, you seem to dig each other, and you've decided to meet up for dinner in order to get to know one another better.

I don't particularly care to hug someone whom I have never met in person before and haven't gotten to know well enough, yet. Not right off the bat, anyway. Hugging is intimate, especially if it is a full frontal hug...ha. A handshake almost seems too business-like for meeting a possible romantic interest, though.

Thoughts?

Originally Posted by A. Spectre

A light kiss on a cheek (face) seems very polite, not too intimate and not too aloof.

It has been a long time since I had a first meet but I am pretty reserved.

I never hug someone I don't know well and even a kiss on the cheek might be too much for me until I know someone more than superficially.