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Old 11-24-2015, 01:34 AM   #1
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YES, nothing more of a turn off than a "know it all"!
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YES, nothing more of a turn off than a "know it all"!
I'm not big on "know nothings" (deliberating if I should add an "lol" here)
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I would not pursue any type of reationship with someone that is rude, cruel, arrogant, pompous, and or disrespectful.

Although....... I do agree with my buddy Homoe, loud and obnoxious is really up there on my list.
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A smoker. Anyone who smokes cigarettes or e cigs or vape.

Really bad hygiene. That poonanny better be clean and smell good.

Someone who is insistent on trying to change any aspect of me before I can try to change myself.
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Someone who can NEVER NEVER EVER admit if they're wrong!
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A "know it all" personalty type!
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Someone who is rude and condescending to waitstaff or anyone in the service industry!
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Inexperienced lovers.
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BUT BUT BUT Chad, that way you get all the "fun" of teaching them
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Someone who is rude and condescending to waitstaff or anyone in the service industry!
That is a major turnoff! Also, people who work waitstaff to death.
Ex: I once had lunch with a potential new g/f and she asked about salad dressings.
The waitress named off the usual- ranch, bleu cheese, thousand island, vinegrette and the house dressing. I can see asking to sample the house dressing, but this woman asked the waitress to bring her samples of ALL of them--during the lunch rush.
Then she chose ranch. On a small side salad.
She also asked questions about the rolls, the ingredients of several entrees and the entire dessert list.

Being overly late. After 15 minutes is bad. At 30 minutes, I cancel.

Another turn off is bad grammar. Supposibly and irregardless are the worst.

Borrowing without returning, returning things in wrecked condition--basically everything my pushy new next door neighbor says or does.

One quirky turn off I have is people making "air quotes" with the fingers.

Sharing details of our sex life in a group of people, in an attempt to be funny.

Needless to say, nose-picking, intentional belching and farting, or doing the usual bathroom things with the door open. I don't need to see anyone on the toilet, flossing, or otherwise spoiling the mystery of her beauty.

Finally, the silent treatment or ghosting without any explanations.
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I don't need to see anyone on the toilet, flossing, or otherwise spoiling the mystery of her beauty.
I don't want to see flossing or other gross things either, but if a Butch wanted me to create some mystery around my allure, I'd immediately resort to wearing sweats, face cream, and do rags.
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That is a major turnoff! Also, people who work waitstaff to death.
Ex: I once had lunch with a potential new g/f and she asked about salad dressings.
The waitress named off the usual- ranch, bleu cheese, thousand island, vinegrette and the house dressing. I can see asking to sample the house dressing, but this woman asked the waitress to bring her samples of ALL of them--during the lunch rush.
Then she chose ranch. On a small side salad.
She also asked questions about the rolls, the ingredients of several entrees and the entire dessert list.

Being overly late. After 15 minutes is bad. At 30 minutes, I cancel.

Another turn off is bad grammar. Supposibly and irregardless are the worst.

Borrowing without returning, returning things in wrecked condition--basically everything my pushy new next door neighbor says or does.

One quirky turn off I have is people making "air quotes" with the fingers.

Sharing details of our sex life in a group of people, in an attempt to be funny.

Needless to say, nose-picking, intentional belching and farting, or doing the usual bathroom things with the door open. I don't need to see anyone on the toilet, flossing, or otherwise spoiling the mystery of her beauty.

Finally, the silent treatment or ghosting without any explanations.
If I had a neighbor like that, I'd learn real fast to say to whatever she wanted to borrow "Oh I just ran out of that myself"
"I could care less" vs "I couldn't care less" are my grammar irritations!
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I'm not big on "know nothings" (deliberating if I should add an "lol" here)
True I get what you mean, nobody wants to date an air head or dummy..LOL
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True I get what you mean, nobody wants to date an air head or dummy..LOL
Oops pardon me.
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people who set standards higher for others than they set for themselves. People who judge others but cant and dont live up to their own judgemental ideals.

overindulgers of any kind, from drink to eats to shopping to gambling

naysayers. People who are NEVER happy, and are always seeing them in a pessimistic light/darkness

poor hygiene. GOD I hate that!

people who make fun of others, and especially when they justify it

I dont care how much education people have..but its a huge turn off when they make fun of me for having college degrees. I am NOT an egg head without common sense just because I spent years in college. Dont tear me down if you are insecure, in other words.

religious yankers. I am so offended with people who shove religion down my throat.

I also agree I dont like inexperienced lovers. Taught enough. Now I bask in my husband's experience.

Insensitive people. Thick headed daft emotionally immature folks. Man, getting hit by them is like a 2 x 4 hitting you in your core.
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True I get what you mean, nobody wants to date an air head or dummy..LOL
Sexual inexperience does not equate stupidity.
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I *think* Homoe's comment was in response to a different turnoff...

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Rude folks.
Lack of independence.
Lack of confidence.
Passive aggressive personalities.
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