Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex?

MrSunshine · 12-12-2015, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl

honestly Mr Sunshine, referring to anyone as a "douche" makes one wonder who has the problem, imo. What you contemplate in private reflection is your own affair, but a woman observing such declarations (of a woman you at some point cared for), wince.

Here's a lesson in reading left to right and NOT reading into things. " yes, as long as THEY ARE NOT a raging douche". Unwinch

kittygrrl · 12-12-2015, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by MrSunshine

Here's a lesson in reading left to right and NOT reading into things. " yes, as long as THEY ARE NOT a raging douche". Unwinch

to each his own

*Anya* · 12-12-2015, 10:39 AM

Paraphrasing Urban Dictionary:

Douche:

Comparing someone to products that clean vaginas.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=douche

Yes, I think it is a sexist thing to say to an ex or about an ex.

Glenn · 12-12-2015, 11:16 AM

I really do not know what happened to mine. I certainly do not feel inclined toward calling them crude names... I am above all that. I respect folks who know how to STILL be friends with their ex's, and STILL treat them well. It shows me how educated some people are, regarding their past relationships.

imperfect_cupcake · 12-13-2015, 05:35 AM

You know, some of us just use crude language in general, as we speak. I also use self deprecatory humour and tease my friends abut being raging sluts. I get called a cunt by my friends on occasion and with great cheer.

It's a different concept of social interaction. I do not feel put down when someone in my social group calls me "hey moose flaps" or my best mate called me titsy fat arse.
Btw, flaps are another word for vaginal lips aka piss flaps.
I'm Canuck, therefore I get called moose flaps.

I'm actually a really politically active person, I am in a very caring and health care orientated job, I went to *finishing school* even, as a young teen. If I want to pull very good upper class manners out of my hip pocket, I will.

Most of the time, I don't fucking feel like it. And oddly enough, it's pretty rare someone who meets me *in person* finds me offensive. Mostly my verbiage makes people laugh. A lot.

Because they can see my body language, hear my tone of voice, and see my grin. That's not possible on here so I usually temper it. But guess what, *some* of my exes were cunts/pricks/arseholes.

And sometimes I am a *massive* tit.

If you are offended by "rough" language unbecoming of a "lady" (#sarcasm) then you likely be offended by me in the future.

PS. Pussy farts

kittygrrl · 12-13-2015, 08:32 AM

yes you can, eventually(with most)

clay · 12-13-2015, 08:50 AM

Yes, sometimes I can.....and others no way.

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