NEW YEAR,What are your wishes and goals

Jesse · 01-01-2016, 07:37 PM

My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time.

Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour.

I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life.

Chad · 12-30-2016, 05:18 PM

Bump bump bump

Bèsame* · 12-30-2016, 11:49 PM

In other words, I prefer the term, "Casual promises to myself that I'm under no legal obligation to fulfill "

So, my self made promise this year, to drink more water and wear more lipstick!

Tuff Stuff · 12-02-2017, 05:33 PM

I take life day by day..seriously.Happy just making it home.

Hoping you all get your wishes in 2018.😉

Chad · 12-28-2017, 02:22 PM

I don't make resolutions for New Years, however, I do try to work harder than I did the year before at being the best version of me possible.

I would like to work on balancing work and fun time.
I am also working to wean myself off artificial sweetener to something more natural.

For 2018 I plan to work hard and play hard.

VintageFemme · 12-30-2016, 11:56 PM

I only have two goals/resolutions/plans for 2017...

To be brave.
To be obsessively grateful.

That is all.

kittygrrl · 12-31-2016, 12:53 AM

the only thing i've determined (I need) to work on so far is to have more vegan options in my everyday life..i will miss honey though

WingsOnFire · 12-31-2016, 12:23 PM

I am looking forward to a fresh new year full of possibilities. I want to go on trips that I have not been able to go on. I want to get back out there and meet people. I am ready for love again.

Happy New Year's Eve to the site I have loved for so long.

BullDog · 12-31-2016, 01:40 PM

My wishes:

That we all somehow stay safe and survive Trump and the Republican horror show.

That everyone I love and care about has a happy and healthy year full of love, kindness and adventure. And me too!

Goals:

Get back to working on eating healthy and being fit. I totally fell off the wagon in 2016 and didn't lift weights a single time. Back to eating healthy, lifting weights and getting cardio on a regular basis.

Up my writing game - both paid and unpaid. I really want to get some fiction writing done this year, get higher level paid jobs and I also want to venture into doing some political writing, which I'm so grateful my girlfriend is encouraging me to do.

Expand my business - to make myself more financially secure to do the things I want to do and survive Trumpcopalypse.

Fight Trump and the Republicans with every fiber of my being - I am not sure what exactly but I will do something every chance I get.

Start playing my guitar again.

Travel and spend as much time as I can with my amazing girl.

Jesse · 12-31-2016, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesse

My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time.

I feel that I've done well with this and will continue to strive forward with this goal.

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Originally Posted by Jesse

Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour.

FAIL! Lol! I did not do so well with this goal in 2016. Mind you, I did not gain any weight, nor did I lose any. My gym visits were far and few in between. Too many start and stops for any success to happen. All I can do about it now is try again this year. I've already gotten a good 4 day start on laying off the unhealthy carbs and sticking to foods I know work best for me. What's important to me is that I am happy and okay with making mistakes, knowing that I will learn from them.

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Originally Posted by Jesse

I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life.

Much has been accomplished with minimizing and downsizing. In fact, I have the last 3 boxes of clothes packed up and waiting for the Veterans donation place to call me on Monday to set a scheduled pick up. I have also done much work on moving forward in a positive manner.

For 2017 I hope that we all practice kindness and acceptance for others; likewise that each of us find good health and joy.

For myself I will continue to strive for success in all of my endeavors, accepting fails as they come, learn from them, and then try again. My big goal this year has to do with Fear and not letting it win, at any point, in my life.

I wish each and everyone of you a healthy, joyful and prosperous new year!

firegal · 12-31-2016, 09:02 PM

Wishin i was with a special someone a distance away! Senting a big SMOOCH at midnite via airmail!

JDeere · 12-31-2016, 09:43 PM

My new years resolution is to become more independent and keep losing weight.

Chad · 01-01-2017, 11:08 AM

Happy 2017!

Time with friends and family is always my top goal. For the first time in a very long time my family and I are all located near each other. This makes my life as a dad and granddad very happy and complete.

Travel is important to me. I have two trips on the books for 2017 and I am planning to add more trips to the list.

My work is very important to me because I can make an important contribution to the environment. I plan to keep working on the balance between work and fun.

Dating is fun and I plan to "date" more this year. I joined a dating site to help me achieve that goal.

Work hard and play hard in 2017.

Chad

JDeere · 01-03-2017, 04:55 PM

For people to be less ignorant
To have less hate
to think before they speak

Kätzchen · 12-01-2017, 06:35 PM

I don't know that I actually subscribe to doing this, but I might try to do a few of my own self improvements and home improvements too.

It's never too late to be a better person or do something nice to make your home life simpler, more peaceful and enjoyable, right?

2017 was an difficult year for me, but I'm grateful for the few GQQD things in life that's come my way.

Here's to all the days ahead and finding more enjoyment along the way.

Chad · 12-28-2017, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Chad

Happy 2017!

Time with friends and family is always my top goal. For the first time in a very long time my family and I are all located near each other. This makes my life as a dad and granddad very happy and complete.

Travel is important to me. I have two trips on the books for 2017 and I am planning to add more trips to the list.

My work is very important to me because I can make an important contribution to the environment. I plan to keep working on the balance between work and fun.

Dating is fun and I plan to "date" more this year. I joined a dating site to help me achieve that goal.

Work hard and play hard in 2017.

Chad

I just saw this from 2017. It is still relevant, I have loved spending time with my family this year.

One change is that I may slow down on the personal travel to spend more time with mom this year.

I have an awesome life and I am grateful for that.

Kelt · 12-28-2017, 09:27 PM

I want to go home. I am so out of place where I am, not even sure where that is, I split my time between two states and neither place is right.

I may fly down in the spring and pick up a temp apt or something...

'Cause who doesn't want to live in three states, right?

01-01-2016, 07:37 PM	#1
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time. Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour. I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

12-30-2016, 05:18 PM	#2
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,312 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	New year Bump bump bump

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Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,422 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,175 Thanked 41,018 Times in 10,768 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	In other words, I prefer the term, "Casual promises to myself that I'm under no legal obligation to fulfill " So, my self made promise this year, to drink more water and wear more lipstick! __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

12-02-2017, 05:33 PM	#4
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	Mama,I'm coming home..Ozzy fucking rocks! I take life day by day..seriously.Happy just making it home. Hoping you all get your wishes in 2018.😉

12-28-2017, 02:22 PM	#5
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,312 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	New Year I don't make resolutions for New Years, however, I do try to work harder than I did the year before at being the best version of me possible. I would like to work on balancing work and fun time. I am also working to wean myself off artificial sweetener to something more natural. For 2018 I plan to work hard and play hard.

12-30-2016, 11:56 PM	#6
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,299 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,828 Thanked 7,620 Times in 1,655 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I only have two goals/resolutions/plans for 2017... To be brave. To be obsessively grateful. That is all. __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity

12-31-2016, 12:53 AM	#7
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WingsOnFire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer..femme.. .babygirl...girl Preferred Pronoun?: Female Ones... Relationship Status: Enjoying life but ready to meet someone Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Portland Oregon Posts: 3,945 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,015 Thanked 12,476 Times in 3,357 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I am looking forward to a fresh new year full of possibilities. I want to go on trips that I have not been able to go on. I want to get back out there and meet people. I am ready for love again. Happy New Year's Eve to the site I have loved for so long. __________________ Previously known as MidnightBlueEyes ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ http://gailsforum.files.wordpress.co...-psd340941.png

12-31-2016, 01:40 PM	#9
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,640 Times in 4,463 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	My wishes: That we all somehow stay safe and survive Trump and the Republican horror show. That everyone I love and care about has a happy and healthy year full of love, kindness and adventure. And me too! Goals: Get back to working on eating healthy and being fit. I totally fell off the wagon in 2016 and didn't lift weights a single time. Back to eating healthy, lifting weights and getting cardio on a regular basis. Up my writing game - both paid and unpaid. I really want to get some fiction writing done this year, get higher level paid jobs and I also want to venture into doing some political writing, which I'm so grateful my girlfriend is encouraging me to do. Expand my business - to make myself more financially secure to do the things I want to do and survive Trumpcopalypse. Fight Trump and the Republicans with every fiber of my being - I am not sure what exactly but I will do something every chance I get. Start playing my guitar again. Travel and spend as much time as I can with my amazing girl. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

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JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	My new years resolution is to become more independent and keep losing weight.

01-01-2017, 11:08 AM	#13
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,312 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	New Year wishes and goals Happy 2017! Time with friends and family is always my top goal. For the first time in a very long time my family and I are all located near each other. This makes my life as a dad and granddad very happy and complete. Travel is important to me. I have two trips on the books for 2017 and I am planning to add more trips to the list. My work is very important to me because I can make an important contribution to the environment. I plan to keep working on the balance between work and fun. Dating is fun and I plan to "date" more this year. I joined a dating site to help me achieve that goal. Work hard and play hard in 2017. Chad

01-03-2017, 04:55 PM	#14
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	For people to be less ignorant To have less hate to think before they speak __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

12-01-2017, 06:35 PM	#15
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Near smoke signals in the sky. Posts: 16,211 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,444 Thanked 33,613 Times in 10,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	I don't know that I actually subscribe to doing this, but I might try to do a few of my own self improvements and home improvements too. It's never too late to be a better person or do something nice to make your home life simpler, more peaceful and enjoyable, right? 2017 was an difficult year for me, but I'm grateful for the few GQQD things in life that's come my way. Here's to all the days ahead and finding more enjoyment along the way. __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. I’m doing my part, as an American citizen, who is concerned about losing our Democracy: I boycott agencies and businesses and service providers who do not support the US Constitution and the Bill of Rights. Support Democracy: Vote Blue

12-28-2017, 09:27 PM	#17
Kelt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Beach Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: SoCal Posts: 2,751 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,765 Thanked 15,279 Times in 2,538 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I want to go home. I am so out of place where I am, not even sure where that is, I split my time between two states and neither place is right. I may fly down in the spring and pick up a temp apt or something... 'Cause who doesn't want to live in three states, right?