Showing scars: what are your relationship fears?

dark_crystal · 07-04-2016, 08:37 AM

Because financial exploitation was a feature of all my major relationships preceding this one, i get really freaked out when there is any kind of job-related problems.

When Mr. Jenny and I first got together I would freak out any time she hit her snooze button in the morning because I just knew she was going to be late and get fired

She found this very offensive as she has now been at the same job for 31 years and I should have been able to see that as proof that she knows how to not get fired

She's right. It was all my issue

07-04-2016, 08:37 AM	#17
dark_crystal Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: jenny Preferred Pronoun?: babygirl Relationship Status: First Lady of the United SMH Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Houston, Texas Posts: 5,445 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,532 Thanked 26,550 Times in 4,688 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Because financial exploitation was a feature of all my major relationships preceding this one, i get really freaked out when there is any kind of job-related problems. When Mr. Jenny and I first got together I would freak out any time she hit her snooze button in the morning because I just knew she was going to be late and get fired She found this very offensive as she has now been at the same job for 31 years and I should have been able to see that as proof that she knows how to not get fired She's right. It was all my issue __________________