Falling in Love.. Online

[SuperFemme]

Originally Posted by Massive

Thank you for this post Lynn. I admit to being too scared to post because I do believe it is possible to find love online, I found My babygirl on the other site, and we've happily moved over here since then.
IMHO relationships, be they online, r/t, long-distance, ALL take hard work, honest, open communication and talking as often as you possibly can, even if it's merely to say "sorry, I can't get online right now, but don't think it's because I don't want to talk to you, it's for *x* reason(s)"
If you meet someone you click with then it's up to you to see where and how far it can go, dismissing it out of hand because they are far away can mean you will regret that for the rest of your life, yes, it is hard being long-distance, I speak from experience here, My babygirl lives in SC, and I live in the North-East of England. It might be harder than dating someone just down the street but it is equally rewarding, today we have webcams and the likes of Skype where you don't have to spend a fortune calling someone on the phone, you hook up your cam and mic and chat, it's not exactly face to face, but it comes pretty damn close.
Try not to be too scared, that's the best advice I can give, and don't let other peoples doubts dissuade you either, it's your personal choice as to how you choose to live and love!

I'm glad you posted because I was hoping you would. Wheelie is in England too!

Your last sentence is the best: don't let other peoples doubts dissuade you.

Amen! At the end of the day, it is between you, your object of desire and fate.

[Massive]

Originally Posted by SuperFemme

I'm glad you posted because I was hoping you would. Wheelie is in England too!

Your last sentence is the best: don't let other peoples doubts dissuade you.

Amen! At the end of the day, it is between you, your object of desire and fate.

Thank you SuperFemme!
I know, I noticed Wheelie was one of the few BFPers on My side of the pond, unfortunately we're at opposite ends of our small island, if I lived closer I can guarantee that I would be popping by for a chat and a cuppa!

Wheelie, I sincerely wish you all the best here!

[WheelieStrong]

Originally Posted by Massive

Thank
I know, I noticed Wheelie was one of the few BFPers on My side of the pond, unfortunately we're at opposite ends of our small island, if I lived closer I can guarantee that I would be popping by for a chat and a cuppa!

i would offer to put the kettle on for you Syr, but it won't fit, no matter how much i try to squeeze in!

My ex gf (the wench lol) who cares for me is from Sunderland, are you that far North East?

[Massive]

Originally Posted by WheelieStrong

i would offer to put the kettle on for you Syr, but it won't fit, no matter how much i try to squeeze in!

My ex gf (the wench lol) who cares for me is from Sunderland, are you that far North East?

lmao No problem but Thank you for the effort!

Yeah, I'm from up past Newcastle now, used to live in 'the toon' but I moved further north to be with My family. I wonder if I know her ... if she was ever on the scene in Newcastle in the past 13 years, it's entirely possible we've bumped into each other!

[SuperFemme]

What's a kettle? Is that for super fast water boiling? To make tea?

[Massive]

Originally Posted by SuperFemme

What's a kettle? Is that for super fast water boiling? To make tea?

Yeah, we use kettles here, that plug into the wall, to boil water for cups of tea, or coffee, or hot other drinks ...

[SuperFemme]

Originally Posted by Massive

Yeah, we use kettles here, that plug into the wall, to boil water for cups of tea, or coffee, or hot other drinks ...

I THOUGHT so. Thanks!

[WheelieStrong]

Originally Posted by Massive

lmao No Yeah, I'm from up past Newcastle now, used to live in 'the toon' but I moved further north to be with My family. I wonder if I know her ... if she was ever on the scene in Newcastle in the past 13 years, it's entirely possible we've bumped into each other!

No Syr i beleive she moved down here 20 years ago and hated it

[Massive]

Originally Posted by WheelieStrong

No Syr i beleive she moved down here 20 years ago and hated it

lol I can't blame her, it is a bit grim oop north!