Your relationship with your mom.

JDeere · 07-30-2016, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray

My Mom and I get along better now than we did when I was little, of course we DO live in different states and don't see each other that much....... She has finally accepted the fact that I'm a lesbian, and that my spouse is around her age. We didn't speak for years because of those two things. I was always closer to her Mother, my Nana.

Does you mother have major issues with your partner being around your mom's age?

I am curious because both my mom's didn't like the fact I dated someone who was older then me at one time.

Lyte · 08-19-2016, 05:53 PM

What a curious question. Is the some theory between being butch and one's relationship with mom??

In my case, mom's gone and we never got along. Rhyme unintended. lol No issues re: my being gay ... lots of other family dynamics that created tension and conflict.

Gayandgray · 09-01-2016, 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Does you mother have major issues with your partner being around your mom's age?

I am curious because both my mom's didn't like the fact I dated someone who was older then me at one time.

Sorry just saw this! Yes the age was a big issue for sure.

~ocean · 09-01-2016, 07:55 AM

As the years go by I realize how many of us have had problems with being accepted or loved for being gay ( lesbian) with our moms. I just want to say , I always loved my mother cause I remember the mom I once had as a young child ~ and right b4 she passed away on todays date 9-1-2000. The last 2 years of her life she reached out ,and I was there for her holding. I thank God everyday that she seen me as who I am

I would give anything to cook her dinner and share an evening of conversation , hair dying , a few laughs over gossip , and the glow on her face as she talked with my daughters.

((((( Mom ))))) your very much loved and missed with and with out your faults .

09-01-2016, 07:55 AM	#4
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,017 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	~ As the years go by I realize how many of us have had problems with being accepted or loved for being gay ( lesbian) with our moms. I just want to say , I always loved my mother cause I remember the mom I once had as a young child ~ and right b4 she passed away on todays date 9-1-2000. The last 2 years of her life she reached out ,and I was there for her holding. I thank God everyday that she seen me as who I am I would give anything to cook her dinner and share an evening of conversation , hair dying , a few laughs over gossip , and the glow on her face as she talked with my daughters. ((((( Mom ))))) your very much loved and missed with and with out your faults . __________________ ~ Always, ocean

08-19-2016, 05:53 PM	#2
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	What a curious question. Is the some theory between being butch and one's relationship with mom?? In my case, mom's gone and we never got along. Rhyme unintended. lol No issues re: my being gay ... lots of other family dynamics that created tension and conflict.