Butches..What makes you feel sexy?

kittygrrl · 08-21-2016, 06:30 PM

It's a mystery to femmes, (at least to some of us). Please enlighten. Are there rules to sex or sexy? Please enlighten, we all want to know. No rules, just be nice

A. Spectre · 08-21-2016, 06:51 PM

Taking a long hot shower after working out or working in the yard, drying off and putting on a crisp long sleeved shirt with a pair of Levis button down jeans.

SHE is waiting for me outside the door ready with the cologne she enjoys me wearing, a spray here a spray there. She reaches behind me and starts to put on my tie and whispers "oh baby you smell so good."

She makes me feel sexy, with all she says and all she does.

BullDog · 08-21-2016, 07:39 PM

- Getting a good haircut

- Working out (especially weight lifting)

Lyte · 08-21-2016, 08:15 PM

Mmm... when the hair is behaving!

MitchM42 · 08-22-2016, 06:46 AM

My Blue Suede Donald Pliner shoes!

Lyte · 08-23-2016, 04:06 PM

This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.

Onebutch · 08-23-2016, 04:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lyte

This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.

I think butches can feel sexy. Sexy does not discriminate.

I can feel sexy just by the way she looks at me.
Working construction, building things.
Good smelling cologne
Nice clothes

These are just a few

JDeere · 08-23-2016, 04:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lyte

This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.

For me sexy isn't the right word.

kittygrrl · 08-23-2016, 05:15 PM

sexy means anything you think it means- when you are "in the groove", "in the mood", in charge, attractive, exciting, seductive, raunchy, bad ass, guapo, gato, rico...

Sweet Bliss · 08-23-2016, 05:21 PM

Words.....

Let's try some on....

" I feel ____________ when......_______________"

wanted................................ she puts her arm in mine...

desired ............................... her nostrils flare

hella hot .............................. she strokes my bicep

any of those work?

homoe · 08-23-2016, 06:33 PM

For some reason I really like it when a femme grabs my hand to hold instead of vice versa!

JDeere · 08-23-2016, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

For some reason I really like it when a femme grabs my hand to hold instead of vice versa!

Homoe has gone mushy on me

J/k!

homoe · 08-23-2016, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JDeere

Homoe has gone mushy on me

J/k!

HA HA HA no offense taken

JDeere · 08-23-2016, 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe

HA HA HA no offense taken

hahah good thing!

Lyte · 08-23-2016, 09:53 PM

I agree... I associate "sexy" more with the femme. That's not quite the right word in my head... but definitely butches can be sexy too!

I raised the question because I thought it curious that we butches didn't weren't commenting as much or as quickly as the equivalent femme question. Perhaps it's because there are more femmes here than butches? I don't know the reason but I'm curious!

JDeere · 08-23-2016, 09:56 PM

I prefer Handsome but nothing makes me feel handsome, I just am, according to my girlfriend.

Lyte · 08-23-2016, 10:04 PM

Doh! My bad... yet again! I didn't realize how much older the femme thread was....looked at the wrong date!! *insert forehead whacking emoticon here*

Is clueless sexy???

RockOn · 08-23-2016, 10:47 PM

when she slowly rubs my stomach ... gets me feeling sexy (actually horny is an even closer definition)

*Anya* · 08-24-2016, 08:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lyte

Is clueless sexy???

It kind of can be.

Depends on the circumstances.

Lyte · 08-24-2016, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by *Anya*

It kind of can be. Depends on the circumstances.

I won't ask if this happens to be one of those!

08-21-2016, 06:30 PM	#1
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,370 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,595 Thanked 21,954 Times in 7,077 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Butches..What makes you feel sexy? It's a mystery to femmes, (at least to some of us). Please enlighten. Are there rules to sex or sexy? Please enlighten, we all want to know. No rules, just be nice __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

08-21-2016, 06:51 PM	#2
A. Spectre Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch dominant lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She, Baby Boi Relationship Status: She is my sunrise and sunset. Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: North Shore Chicago Posts: 1,569 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,033 Thanked 11,067 Times in 1,495 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Taking a long hot shower after working out or working in the yard, drying off and putting on a crisp long sleeved shirt with a pair of Levis button down jeans. SHE is waiting for me outside the door ready with the cologne she enjoys me wearing, a spray here a spray there. She reaches behind me and starts to put on my tie and whispers "oh baby you smell so good." She makes me feel sexy, with all she says and all she does. __________________ * * *Joy and Sorrow are Inseparable

08-21-2016, 07:39 PM	#3
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08-22-2016, 06:46 AM	#5
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08-23-2016, 05:15 PM	#9
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,370 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,595 Thanked 21,954 Times in 7,077 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	guys.. sexy means anything you think it means- when you are "in the groove", "in the mood", in charge, attractive, exciting, seductive, raunchy, bad ass, guapo, gato, rico... __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

08-21-2016, 08:15 PM	#4
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	Mmm... when the hair is behaving!

08-23-2016, 04:06 PM	#6
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours. Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.

08-23-2016, 05:21 PM	#10
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Words..... Let's try some on.... " I feel ____________ when......_______________" wanted................................ she puts her arm in mine... desired ............................... her nostrils flare hella hot .............................. she strokes my bicep any of those work?

08-23-2016, 06:33 PM	#11
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08-23-2016, 09:53 PM	#15
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	I agree... I associate "sexy" more with the femme. That's not quite the right word in my head... but definitely butches can be sexy too! I raised the question because I thought it curious that we butches didn't weren't commenting as much or as quickly as the equivalent femme question. Perhaps it's because there are more femmes here than butches? I don't know the reason but I'm curious!

08-23-2016, 09:56 PM	#16
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08-23-2016, 10:04 PM	#17
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	Doh! My bad... yet again! I didn't realize how much older the femme thread was....looked at the wrong date!! insert forehead whacking emoticon here Is clueless sexy???

08-23-2016, 10:47 PM	#18
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	when she slowly rubs my stomach ... gets me feeling sexy (actually horny is an even closer definition)