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Well..I've got the top off my gas stove ,and still tryin to figure out how to fix the electric sparking system on 2 burners that don't light.
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I learned this morning that a childhood friend had passed away. Been crying, I admit, most of the day. I'm often the one holding, comforting others. I used to being told it's unmanly to show grief, tears, emotion. I do despite this because to lose my sensitive side is to lose a vital part of who I am. I'm a switch, but I naturally am a protector. I'll be the first to step up even if my feet are shaky because I'm needed.
But right now, I don't feel so strong. And unfortunately, experience has taught me that many women cannot handle their fella (FTM, Butch, Masculine of center SO) admitting that. Right now, I need the sweet, sure arms of someone I love and who loves me wrapped around me, my face in HER neck, her lips on MY forehead for a change. I need to feel safe and loved and valued. I need to be reminded that it's okay for it to hurt this bad and that it doesn't change who I am. I need the love and comfort of a woman who understands that I can't always be strong, that my tender side is just as precious and valuable. Like in Chess, sometimes, often, the King needs to be protected by his Queen.
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Another cup of coffee
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HER...smile, laugh, the softness of her hands as they are being held by mine, the endless conversations about anything and everything.
For November to be here. Seems to drag up till time to leave to go see her then speeds the hell up while I'm there. That chit needs to stop!!!!
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An exfoliating salt rub followed by a deep-tissue massage.
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(((((((( solitude)))))))) such a insight to your inner self ~ I find your sharing of your soul ( spirit) beautiful ~ expressing your naked self... always be you~ the hell w/anyone who can't embrace such truth.I'm sry for your loss.
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To get the heck out of this doctor appt.!! I brought my spouse here at her pain doc appt at 2:20, her appt was at 2:30. Almost an hour later we are still sitting here and they tell us her appt wasn't until 3:00!!! I said "NO you people called me on Friday when I was at work and re-scheduled for today at 2:30! Of course they have no idea who called me???????? This crap gets on my nerves........
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A good plumber. Stat. My kitchen sink has been backed up for days and I can barely do the few dishes I make. Plus it smells. Ick
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Cinnamon girl, put lots of baking soda down the drain and then pour in slowly one cup of white vinegar, might remove junk but will definitely help with the smell. Couple times should do it. Just thought I would suggest.
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For 230 to get here. Stat.
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For a shelter pooch to still be there and available for adoption when I call at 10:00. He is 7 months old and will be large. I just posted his photo in my gallery. I bet he is puppy-clumsey with those big feet. *laughing* I want to sneak him back in to work with me but think it would not be one of my brighter ideas. Heck, this lady brings a yorkie in to work in her purse all the time. Only a few people know. And she puts a barrette in the dog's hair too tight. The poor thing's eyes always go up at the corners. I am serious!!!
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I really need to get through this next year without my spouse having any major health setbacks, since I no longer have a live-in sitter. I can apply for FMLA in a year.
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Need to let it go ...
I went back to the shelter this morning. I hate to even think about it and feel quite rotten about it but after spending time in the play yard with the pup again that I intended to adopt, I backed out. I am of the opinion this dog has more going on than pent up puppy energy. I am talking about over the top pup attention deficent. It was like I was an object he would run to, jump up, bounce off my body and go on to the next object. For almost an hour, I could not get him settled enough to actually pet him. His mind was going so fast he was incapable of having focus on anything or showing even the tiniest bit of affection. Yesterday, I thought it was just because he was in a smaller kennel in the back. And maybe that is all it is but I got uneasy today spending more time with him. If I brought him home --->>> Kevie, Jennifer and I would have to go on very heavy drugs. I am sad for this little guy but right now I cannot deal with him. If I was retired, maybe. I am just feeling bad about backing out. This is only the second time in my life I have done this. The other one was not too long before I adopted Jennifer. That unfortunate dog was gorgeous but born pure nuts. I knew I made the right decision by not adopting that one. She made me dizzy in the play yard. Anyway, I have to put our sanity first. |
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I need a winning lottery ticket.
Or more sleep. One might lead to the other one day. |
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A parking space near the apartment I live in that doesn't involve walking up two huge hills.
Seriously. 😳
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Sleep would be lovely.
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Hearty breakfast would be great!
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