Butch Attire & Fashion

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by JDeere

Do yall dress according to what your partner likes or what you find comfortable for you?

My gf loves me in polo shirts for some reason, I go along with it at first but now I don't mind looking nice for her. Lol she's the only gf that I have actually dressed up for.

I honestly have never had a GF not like the way I dressed. So, changing style in any way has never been a problem. My GFs have suggested certain colors if I am trying on clothes in a store, and I will often go with what they like. I tend to trust the people's opinion that I date. I suppose that is because I typically couple with people who in my opinion (ha), has good taste/wears what looks good on them. If my partner and I are going out somewhere dressed up, I always encourage them to tell me what they would like me to wear. Too, if I presenting at a conference or some other professional affair where I will be "front and center", I tend to go with their suggestions.

I also wouldn't be adverse to trying a different style in the store if they thought it would look good on me. However, no one has ever suggested I wear something that I wasn't comfortable in. But, in the off chance that someone asked me to wear something that I wasn't comfortable in, I would try it, but unless I liked it, no, I wouldn't wear it. I am also comfortable letting my GFs know what I prefer on them. This would be clothing styles that are already a part of their wardrobe. I don't have a sense of the latest "trends" that women are wearing, so it is not like I ever come "home" and make random suggestions. Too, it isn't important to me that my GF is wearing the "latest trend", I just like whatever I think is most flattering to the person...and like I said, my comments would only come from their current wardrobe.