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01-08-2017, 01:41 AM
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Ma chérie, a sweet thing. Preferred Pronoun?:
feminine Relationship Status:
Following the scent of flowers. 
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Location: La vie bohem
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Non negotional desires: the basics
Chemistry creating that feeling of *please* come closer. (The healthy kind)
Devotion, passionately, heart to heart. We *love* our love. Very loving and expressive, prone to impromptu acts of passion. I adore purity of heart, and kind, honest expression. Open-mindedness, free thinker, global spirit, adventurous. Embodies finesse, a grace of spirit. Someone who bothers to live an interesting life, unapologetically interesting.Then comes home and shares. |
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01-13-2017, 09:42 PM
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Good Guy Preferred Pronoun?:
He Relationship Status:
Single 
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For Me;
I have to be attracted to the lady and extremely attracted in what they have to offer from the heart... Be honest, loving, caring, trusting and are really good in the bedroom... turn off- they get jealous , there not a whole person, glass is half empty or half full...when I'm in a relationship I only have eyes for that femme....I don't get jealous, that's me.. If there is no trust in a relationship then there is no relationship.... They can't sit down and talk about what's bothering them...instead they give you the silent treatment or yell for no reason....not ok !!
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01-13-2017, 11:40 PM
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Senior Member
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old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?:
mermaid, *very* lucky babygirl Relationship Status:
Saltwater mermaid ♡ 
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I can't stick to only 3 either. If only I knew these things before learning them the hard way.
1) Consistency - continue being the person portrayed while getting to know each other. Some things will change after the "honeymoon" period, but the person shouldn't. I don't understand this because I, myself, don't know how to be anything other than what I really am, always ... not just while falling in love. Example ... I don't stop wanting to express my love or feelings. I don't stop pursuing common interests or passions. 2) Honesty 3) Core values and beliefs must be in sync. Not everything about two people will be the same, but I can't survive major clashing differences such as how we view life, in general, relationships, health and how we want to live. Our major differences either have to be complimentary or able to co-exist peacefully. Or else. 4) Common interests - Just a few ordinary ones won't cut it. I am passionate and contemplative about too many things that I need to have in my life that I get along best with someone who actively shares at least some of the major interests I have. Last year I discovered a very enlightening project that helped me narrow everything down to four core things I cannot live without. 5) Be humble. I am humble and old-fashioned, and I can't get along with chaos, arrogance, obsession with material things, total selfishness and anything else that goes against being humble and in tune with what I believe life should be about. 6) Sense of humor - laughter is one simple thing that keeps me going. 7) Love - know the difference between real, mature love and selfish, unhealthy "love" where you mostly love the person because of some one-sided void they fill and what they give you ... instead of for who they are and how well you go together.
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Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence 
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01-14-2017, 12:50 AM
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Butch 
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05-01-2018, 10:56 PM
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Infamous Member
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witchy Relationship Status:
just for fun 
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Location: near the wild mushrooms
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(in every context)kind
foresight passionate
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05-02-2018, 12:42 AM
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Senior Member
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Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?:
They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status:
open 
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Location: Great White North!
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True to Heart (physical a non-issue)
Open minded, hearted Experimental in all things |
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01-15-2017, 09:52 PM
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Senior Member
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G-d made Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Ohio
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I would like to apply for this position 
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01-15-2017, 11:41 PM
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Infamous Member
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OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?:
He Relationship Status:
Loved Caregiver 
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Non-negotiables
Mine are always the same,
No cheating No lies No drugs I actually have more but it said three. |
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08-14-2017, 07:22 PM
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Member
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her femme Preferred Pronoun?:
girl Relationship Status:
Blissfully married to the love of my life. Join Date: Nov 2009
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1. Integrity
2. Honesty 3. Good communication skills 4. Self supporting and employed 5. Compassion for others 6. Must love cats! OK, I went above 3 too...but they are very important to me and if I ever date anyone again these things must be true of that person. |
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08-14-2017, 07:37 PM
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Infamous Member
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Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?:
She Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: In A Healing Place
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Kind
Positive outlook on life (negative people are a soul sucker) Smart/Good sense of humor (hey you can't be funny if you're not smart, lol)
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08-14-2017, 07:37 PM
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Member
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Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
She, her.. Relationship Status:
Single 
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Honesty....
Self independence.... Wit & adventurous.... No alcoholics.... Loves life & wants to be part of it, not out of it... Couldn't stick to just 3 either lol I tried... |
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08-14-2017, 10:02 PM
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Senior Member
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Dame, doll, twist, dish Preferred Pronoun?:
Ladylike ones Relationship Status:
******* Join Date: Jul 2012
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Miss Guided...
As strange or even counter-intuitive as this may sound, at this point I've ditched the "list of requirements." My own tastes and preferences can be so diverse it seems a shame to saddle someone else with a list of do and do nots. IDK, more opting in, less opting out? This is coming from someone who if I had won the lottery this weekend would have funded both the first chair cello at the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra annnnnd my own NASCAR team.
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08-14-2017, 10:10 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
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1.Smoking
2.Smoking 3.Smoking Did I mention smoking? .gif "Say What?")
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05-02-2018, 05:36 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM' 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: The roads are narrow here
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Yes! Yes! |
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05-03-2018, 01:42 AM
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Senior Member
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Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?:
They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status:
open
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Location: Great White North!
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HONESTY
Meets obligations made Experimentalism |
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I'm misunderestimated. 
Hybrid Mode
