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Here is my Fortune shrine.
Its a combination of attracting fortune and sending out gratitude. The Goddess in the photo is Goddess Fortuna. She is abundant with coins and on top of the world. There are some gorgeous statues of her...... ![]() |
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Today i happen to notice a ton of keys on my keyring. I went through them and realized there are only two that I need. I threw out bunch of old ones I don't need anymore. Feels so much lighter in my bag!
I also cleared out some old business cards I have accumulated. Why am I hanging on this stuff? Old text messages. One person I had over 2,000!!!! Thats crazy. Also went through my contacts and deleted a bunch I don't need. Feels so good! Also old relationship *stuff *. I still had a few things that I was holding on to..like an old fortune cookie message i found. Time to toss it and open up some space. |
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![]() ![]() I have found this book to be amazingly informative and helpful in understanding how the Law of Attraction can be applied to your life.
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Thank you for starting this wonderful thread. I have been reading and watching about this topic and others related for quite some time now. I don't know if anyone has mentioned it here yet, but I tried doing a focus wheel (a bunch of stuff written around a central statement) a few months back on one of the biggest most important things to me.
I have to get the hang of this sort of "charting" better, but I do keep a journal and several notebooks for myself where I can at least get things out on paper, which helps a lot since I am such a visual learner/thinker. And yes, staying de-cluttered has become something vital to me. I keep a drawer where I put paper junk that can be shredded, so that at least if I don't get around to shredding, it has a place to go that is out of sight until I get to it and it gives me relief knowing that I don't have anything extra around that isn't being used or isn't worth keeping. The key thing made me laugh lol. I always end up with keys to who knows who's house or gate or whatever, and if they aren't keys I use regularly, I totally forget where they came from and have to throw them out, risking that I might throw out one I actually need cause they all look so similar. Quote:
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girl_dee, I must get a copy of your declutter book. I have too much stuff.Thanks for post!
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To me, declutter is the same as letting go. Freeing up things in your life that you've been hanging on to for too long. When I left Oklahoma, I gave away many things I was toting around for more than 5 years that I never unpacked. I had to ask myself why. When I finally was able to tell myself I no longer had a use for any of it, I let go. I lifted a heavy weight off of me. My brain said, freeing yourself of material things was a start because material things can be replaced, if truly needed. Closets with clothes I'd kept and no longer wore, gone. But decluttering wasn't just about letting go of material things. I released toxic people and chose a saner, quieter life. I've learned to live simple not extravagant.
As for using words I never ever put out to the universe, I have one and it has been with me since childhood. The word hate is one I have never used. I learned from my mom to replace it with dislike. She used to tell all her kids, hate is a strong word and although you may not like something or someone, you cannot say you absolutely hate. She said, what if you told someone you love that you hate them in anger and you go to sleep, wake up and find they died. She said, you will always know, in your heart, what your last words were to them.
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One thing that i have done and has totally worked for me, is when I have a goal I am manifesting I change my passwords to match that goal. How many times a day do you type this in, and reinforce your message.
All last year I made my passwords " NAMEOFTHETOWNIWANTEDTOLIVEIN2017 " ..... Well on January 1, 2017 I started my move and it all fell into place. |
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An Empath friend commented that the latest political events have left her having sensory overload.
Exactly. Does anyone else feel *heavy* when these things happen? My life has taken a shift this week and i feel SO secure and in my happy space, but outside of that space i feel angry, sad and helpless. i was sitting at work and heard a train come by, and thought *hmmm i wonder what it sounds like when i missile strikes* it's heavy, and is why i cannot watch the news. |
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I would really like to know more about this Law of Attraction?
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So I guess I have been working the Law of Attraction here recently and didn't actually realize it?! I had decided to change my mindset toward my job and other aspects of my life, and I decided to start practicing gratitude every day.
Things starting looking up and all of a sudden, things weren't so bad after all! I had heard some about The Secret years ago but never got interested in it enough to learn more about it, and I didn't realize that The Law of Attraction and The Secret were the same thing. Since nobody responded to my post I went ahead and googled about the LOA and I'm really feeling like this is something I can do on a daily basis. I have already had great results just by setting my intentions for the day as soon as I wake up, keeping positive even when it's really hard, etc. And I did some decluttering but girl_dee has given me some great ideas for even more from her posts. I'm going to continue to read online more about this Woo woo Law of Attraction stuff and maybe look into vision boards on Pinterest, since I'm on Pinterest a lot.
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