Instant Turn-Offs

homoe · 04-30-2017, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by C0LLETTE

I'm not big on "know nothings" (deliberating if I should add an "lol" here)

True I get what you mean, nobody wants to date an air head or dummy..LOL

Chad · 04-30-2017, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

True I get what you mean, nobody wants to date an air head or dummy..LOL

Oops pardon me.

Soft*Silver · 04-30-2017, 08:14 PM

people who set standards higher for others than they set for themselves. People who judge others but cant and dont live up to their own judgemental ideals.

overindulgers of any kind, from drink to eats to shopping to gambling

naysayers. People who are NEVER happy, and are always seeing them in a pessimistic light/darkness

poor hygiene. GOD I hate that!

people who make fun of others, and especially when they justify it

I dont care how much education people have..but its a huge turn off when they make fun of me for having college degrees. I am NOT an egg head without common sense just because I spent years in college. Dont tear me down if you are insecure, in other words.

religious yankers. I am so offended with people who shove religion down my throat.

I also agree I dont like inexperienced lovers. Taught enough. Now I bask in my husband's experience.

Insensitive people. Thick headed daft emotionally immature folks. Man, getting hit by them is like a 2 x 4 hitting you in your core.

Gemme · 05-01-2017, 06:01 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe

True I get what you mean, nobody wants to date an air head or dummy..LOL

Sexual inexperience does not equate stupidity.

easygoingfemme · 05-01-2017, 06:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Sexual inexperience does not equate stupidity.

I *think* Homoe's comment was in response to a different turnoff...

Turnoffs:

Rude folks.
Lack of independence.
Lack of confidence.
Passive aggressive personalities.

*Anya* · 05-01-2017, 09:33 AM

A conversation monopolizer- talks non-stop and does not know the give and take of actual conversation.

A gossiper. Someone that talks trash about other people.

Prudes. Though I may look like one (dress modestly, do not like my cleavage to show in everyday life, do not swear in general -yes, I know I have been saying the F word more here since Trump has been pushing my buttons but not really in the world...) I am not a prude.

A Trump supporter. That is one potential relationship that would be doomed from jump street.

Forgot one of the biggest: heavy drinkers and druggers. About green meds, no judgment. I don't use green meds and know that they help a lot of people but I am unsure about that. I know I am allergic to the smoke. This would have to be some kind of compromise.

NavyButch · 05-01-2017, 02:05 PM

Being close minded

Rudeness

Passive aggressive

Cheaters

Emotional drainers

When someone monopolizes the conversation and does not let you speak

When someone interrupts you while you are talking

When someone goes on and on about their ex's (which makes you surmise they have not worked through their past)

Bad hygiene

Constant negativity (where every conversation is all negative to the point that you have to ask is there anything good that goes on in your world?)

Drama, drama, drama

homoe · 05-02-2017, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme

I *think* Homoe's comment was in response to a different turnoff...

Turnoffs:

Rude folks.
Lack of independence.
Lack of confidence.
Passive aggressive personalities.

Correct and thank you easygoingfemme! It was in response to a totally different post indeed

MsTinkerbelly · 05-02-2017, 10:13 AM

Yes your ex was part of who you are, but talking about them in nearly every conversation? Not cool

JDeere · 05-02-2017, 06:37 PM

Wishy washy people

Narcissistic people

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